Is it posible to become pregnant, if last PMS on 12/26/10... me and my huby had unprotected sex (dogy style)on the 7th... but after 30min. He gave me finger orgasm... is there a chance that I can still become pregnant?? Please help!!

Of course. What part of all that did you think might exempt you from getting pregnant?

Well sense after I had orgasm all his sperm came out... is it still posible??

Well sense after I had orgasm all his sperm came out... is it still posible??

Well sence after i had orgasm all his sperm came out... is it still posible???
Why would you think that an orgasm forces out sperm? Plenty of sperm were inside you and traveling toward an egg.

Having an orgasm is not a sperm-flushing method.

Are you trying to get pregnant?

YES... Very much!! But I had abortion in May of 2009... and never had unprotected sex till now... and this time I think I'm ready for it...

I think you should try to learn more about what increases, and decreases, the chances of getting pregnant.

This is a good site:Tips on Getting Pregnant (http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/getting-pregnant.html)

Good luck.

The problem is that my huby does not want a baby yet, so he is always protecting... I had an argument with him on the 2nd and no sex until the 7th... that's when we made up and he didn't have chance to pull out... he came like in 5 sec... I don't think that I will get a socond chance like this, unless we fight again(LOL)

Hello k:

It's never a good idea to TRAP your husband. See if you can work it out. That's how GOOD marriages last.

excon

the problem is that my huby does not whant a baby yet, so he is always protecting...
So you are going to SURPRISE him with a pregnancy? Not a good thing to do.

No not really, he always asks me if I want too, and I keep saing 'NO' because we live in different states... And now that I moved... I like to start family, but I don't want him to know.His Birthday is coming up... he always askes me if he should pull out and I keep saing YES... but if I do become pregnant he will love it... I just don't know how to tell him!!

I work with a guy who was put in the same position, a "surprise pregancy". He wouldn't even touch his own daughter for the first year of her life. He's a jerk by nature, and a worst case scenario, but it happens. It almost ruined his marriage, because he felt tricked.

Think about it. Talk and listen to him.

the problem is that my huby does not want a baby yet, so he is always protecting

I like to start family, but I don't want him to know.

but if I do become pregnant he will love it
What's the REAL story on what he wants?

we live in different states
Why? Are you really married?

Yes we are married for 4 years... business... I just moved in with him...

So he doesn't want a baby and makes an effort to use protection, but you are sure he will love it if you get pregnant, so you do your best to sneak in unprotected sex whenever you can?

It's a long story... Plus that was not my question!! But thanks for your help WONDERGIRL :))

So you 'think' you are ready now to spend the next 18 years being responsible for a needy human being, and yet haven't agreed on it with your husband, probably the supporter of both of you for the first several years anyway, unless you plan to let the taxpayer foot the bill?
Heck, I've seen husbands walk out the door the minute they find out their wives pulled this little trick.

I really don't need an advise on my personal life!!

I realy don't need an advise on my personal life!!!!Hello k:

So, screwing doggy style isn't about your private life?? Girl. You put your life out there... Don't be surprised because people comment...

excon

Exon my question is not about why or why not I'm doing it!! Or should I or should I not do it!! I just want to know if I could become pregnant from it, that's all!! If I'm married or if he whant's it should not concern anyone out here!!

I figured I'd get negged, but despair of all the babies born willy nilly these days

if i'm married or if he whant's it should not concern anyone out here!!!!
We didn't ask. You volunteered the information and created the questions in our minds.

What's the REAL story on what he wants?
Quoting :
We live in different states Why? Are you really married?
You did asked!!

Please use the Answer box for replies.


What's the REAL story on what he wants?
Quoting :
We live in different states Why? Are you really married?
You did asked!!
You said he doesn't want a baby, but you are eagerly trying to get pregnant.

You said you and he live in different states. I wondered why a married couple would live in two different places, so asked if you are really married.

Does he want a baby?

For the sake of the baby, please really think this through.

Wondergirl really if you don't have an answare just ignore me please...

wondergirl realy if you don't have an answare just ignore me please...
I DID answer your question. Do you need more information?

Hello k:

So, screwing doggy style isn't about your private life??? Girl. You put your life out there... Don't be surprised because people comment...

excon


Out of greenies but I did have to wonder why doggy style was mentioned. (Doggie or doggy? I'm not sure.)

You and hubby need to talk and discuss this

Fr_Chuck discuss what?? If I could get pregnant from that?? Well he is not sure...

As the others have said, be sure this is something you both are ready for at this time.

On the possible pregnancy note: Yes, you could get pregnant since with ejaculation millions of sperm are deposited near the cervix. Of those millions, the majority will either die off, lose their way, or not be suitable to fertilize an egg. It often feels as though most of the semen is leaking back out, but rest assured, in most cases, there will be enough remaining.

However, while it can happen that you become pregnant with the first attempt, it is unlikely simply because of the odds of anyone becoming pregnant in a given cycle. It can naturally take many more attempts.

You will need to see what happens when your next period is due and test if necessary.

JudyKayTee I guess it does matter what position was used... they say that it causes the sperm to pool behind your cervix...

Wondergirl female orgasm actually aids conception as it contracts your uterus so that sperm can be drawn up into the reproductive tract. It also serves to relax you and make it conducive for your body to receive the sperm. But since I had my orgasm after he injeculated, there are still posibility that I can get pregnant??

wondergirl female orgasm actually aids conception as it contracts your uterus so that sperm can be drawn up into the reproductive tract. It also serves to relax you and make it conducive for your body to receive the sperm. but since i had my orgasm after he injeculated, there are still posibility that i can get prego???


I'll answer for WG (who can well answer for herself but I can't resist) - it's ejaculate, not injeculate.

I am confused by the amount of knowledge you appear to have and the amount of knowledge that you don't appear to have as well as the fluctuations in spelling.

At any rate my research indicates that orgasm does NOT draw sperm into your reproductive tract (Can Female Orgasm Help You Get Pregnant? (http://infertility.about.com/b/2009/05/27/can-female-orgasm-help-you-get-pregnant.htm)). Do you have another source of info?

"JudyKayTee" this is NOt about English or Spelling!! If you have nothing else to say just ignore!! Thanks

"JudyKayTee" this is NOt about English or Spelling!!!! if you have nothing else to say just ignore!!!! thanx

Perhaps it needs to be, and perhaps sex ed as well.

Fr_Chuck I am here to get an answare to my question... perhaps you can give the same advise to other readers with your ed thing... I don't think that's nice of you! Thanks any ways

Kristinka,

Some positions are thought to possibly be more helpful than others when a couple is trying to conceive, however, there won't be much difference in most situations. Along those same lines, whether a woman has an orgasm or not, won't make much difference.

I know there are a great many things read online that people will search out, read, and take to heart in hopes of having the odds in their favor for how ever they are hoping the situation will turn out. In reality, the basics remain the same.

Again, yes, it is possible for you to become pregnant with the circumstances you described. It is simply a matter of waiting now to see what results you might get if you decide to take a pregnancy test in a couple of weeks or so.

DoulaLC Thanks A LOT, VERY Helpful INFO...

"JudyKayTee" this is NOt about English or Spelling!!!! if you have nothing else to say just ignore!!!! thanx

Please don't even attempt to dictate who will answer you or in what manner. Every time you post you PROVE that you are not in a position to raise a child.

At last something we can agree on : "kristinka323 does not find this helpful : I'm not taking English or spelling class"

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kristinka323 does not find this helpful : I'm not taking English or spelling class

First, may I call your attention to the guidelines for using the comments feature found here:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/feedback/using-comments-feature-24951.html

If you want proper answers it helps when you post understandable answers. So spelling and grammar do help us help you.

As pointed out, once you post, you open yourself up to any answers that people want to give. As long as the answer doesn't violate our rules (in which case you report it) its valid. You have no right to dictate who can and can't answer.

That once a male ejaculates inside you, there is a chance of pregnancy. Whether other factors enhance or inhibit that chance is peripheral. Your question was whether you could be pregnant and the answer to that question is yes.

[I]I like to thank everyone for being open with me. This is my first time using online help. How ever, if I am pregnant I will be more then happy to keep it... if not then I will not try too unless he wants me too.and if he doesn't want a baby then he should use a protection, because I due... Like I stated in my question it was my 13th day since my last first day of PMS, and I had pain in my right side on the 8th and 9th of January... I believe it was my ovulation day... I had high prolactin for more then 10 years, was not able to get pregnant... and now that it is back to normal, I get pains during my ovulation time. I don't care about my spelling... At this point I just whanna know if I could possibly be pregnant. I'm scared and at the same time excited... It's not somethig I had in mind, but if I am pregnant I will talk about it with my husband!!