userdime
Jan 8, 2011, 10:35 PM
I don't know where to start...
Okay, so I dated this guy 7 months ago for like a month or so, he was very secretive and would only see me once a week. I didn't appreciate it and thought he was up to no good so I confronted him and we stopped talking.
3 weeks ago he emailed me saying he wants to be friends and that he missed me. We met up 3 days later, he suposably fell in love with me since the first time he met me (I think its bs). He asked me to be his GF the second week, I said no then yes. I met his 18 year old sister that he is very close to and he offered to buy me a ring that way I know he is taking me serious. We have been two weeks "together", I work mornings and he works evenings and says he is busy nights. So we see each other once a week and pretty much text all the other time... He doesn't want me to know where he lives because he said he has a restraining order on his ex.
I told him it is not going to work because this is no relationship and we should stay friends but he got all emotional and said I wanted to date other guys. So, I told him we will work on it. I know it is way to soon to expect anything but at this point I don't know what to do since I have not been in this sort of so call relationship...
My question is... What should I be thinking? Cause I am thinking he has someone else and wants me on the side. But when we spent time together it doesn't feel like that. What do you think?
Okay, so I dated this guy 7 months ago for like a month or so, he was very secretive and would only see me once a week. I didn't appreciate it and thought he was up to no good so I confronted him and we stopped talking.
3 weeks ago he emailed me saying he wants to be friends and that he missed me. We met up 3 days later, he suposably fell in love with me since the first time he met me (I think its bs). He asked me to be his GF the second week, I said no then yes. I met his 18 year old sister that he is very close to and he offered to buy me a ring that way I know he is taking me serious. We have been two weeks "together", I work mornings and he works evenings and says he is busy nights. So we see each other once a week and pretty much text all the other time... He doesn't want me to know where he lives because he said he has a restraining order on his ex.
I told him it is not going to work because this is no relationship and we should stay friends but he got all emotional and said I wanted to date other guys. So, I told him we will work on it. I know it is way to soon to expect anything but at this point I don't know what to do since I have not been in this sort of so call relationship...
My question is... What should I be thinking? Cause I am thinking he has someone else and wants me on the side. But when we spent time together it doesn't feel like that. What do you think?