My husband and I have have been together for 7 years and he could not keep his hands off me and now... nothing I dress up for bed and all and he goes to sleep!! I want to cry! I AM SO LOST MYSELF

What no talking or fighting about it? No sleeping on the couch even?? No cold toast for breakfast?

How long has this been going on, and what has changed in this marriage?? New baby, new job, illness injury? Talk to me!!

Yes please provide us with some more information.

If you're not fighting or have a lot of stress going on with living, then it's possible that he has a medical problem, so don't lay there imagining that it has anything to do with you, as it might not.

He does have a new job (6 months new0. I guess the only new detail is that about a month ago he told me that during a break up time when we were dating he did sleep with another girl (one that I know and hate) anyway I am having a hard time with it and we decided to see a marriage counslor ( I did not discuss the lack of sex as that was not a issue yet.) When I am stressed out from work or anything I can't sleep like a baby like he can. He gets into bed and just goes fast to sleep does not even want to hold me.As a matter of fact when I would get stress my husband would ask for sex because it would less the stress and relax me... so I am just so GRGGRR!! And very sad.

There are marriage issues, get back to the counselor and talk sex, talk things that bother you, be specific, they have hard everything and they don't judge.

But there is stress of up and down in relationship, stress of new jobs

Stress can cause performance issues, and lact of desire very easily

What no talking or fighting about it?? No sleeping on the couch even??? No cold toast for breakfast?

How long has this been going on, and what has changed in this marriage???? New baby, new job, illness injury?? Talk to me!!!!

No talking yet, no fighting. I just let him go to sleep and I try my best to sleep that is how I am handling this as of this moment. I am not sure on how to discuss it with him. I don't want him to have sex with me to make me feel better and I don't want to guilt him because what if it is stress ( I am not so sure but it could be the new job ) I am not sure if I want to talk to him about it. I hate to say it but maybe it is me. But I can't talk to my friends about it because they would say I was nuts and I can't talk to him because if he did have sex with me then I would just worry after that if its something that he wanted to do to start with. Breath... This all started about 2 or 3 weeks ago but not all so fast. To be honest he had a (not so) hard time during sex if you get what I am saying. And then he just does not even care to try just is happy going to bed. Now what?