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Marshmallow67
Jan 3, 2011, 09:40 AM
Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been together for half a year now and things were going great, then during around October I got busy with my studies and haven't been able to talk to him that much, so two months later I see that he seemed different like we were just friends, then I noticed he kept talking about this girl a lot so I got curious and thought he had feelings for her so I asked him if he still had feelings for me. He replied saying that he doesn't anymore. I was very shocked and asked him why and he said that I broke his heart. He misunderstood thinking I was with a another guy.He said that his current girlfriend told him that she loved him and because he was heart broken for two months not talking to me he got together with her.Before he was my boyfriend he was my best friend, so he wanted us to be best friends because he still wanted to talk to me but with a new girlfriend? I have been wanting to know if he still has feelings for me and whenever I ask him he changes the subject so I think he does but I can't be sure. I played along and we had fun everyday as friends,a week later, out of nowhere he told me he could not do this because his current girlfriend told him not to talk to other girls. I felt hurt. I asked him whether he was going to listen to her like that and he said that he couldn't help it because he said that he wants to make her happy no matter what. After that day he still continued to talk to me.I liked this because I still love him and I want to be close friends with him at the same time I don't want to talk to him because it hurtsAnd I cannot let him go. Im so confused and I don't know what I should do so can someone please help me?

talaniman
Jan 3, 2011, 02:28 PM
Leave each other alone. Its to soon after the break up to go right back to the way it was. It may never be the same between you, not even as friends. Its time to let each other go and make new friends.

Only then will the confusion be dealt with and fade into the past. Let him enjoy his new girl.

curlyqisme
Jan 9, 2011, 11:05 AM
Sweetie, he's playing games with you. His girlfriend will keep telling him to not talk to females. If he does & she finds out, it will only bring drama & will mess with your emotions. It's time to cut him off. Tip: you can't ever be friends with ex's.

Steph_Love
Jan 12, 2011, 07:13 PM
I think you should tell him how you feel about him and apologize for not paying any attention to him. Then just cut all communications with him. He seems like a super sensitive guy who just wants to be loved. Most likely he will call you to talk about things. A new girlfriend/boyfriend is always exciting, but after a while, if he still has feelings for you, he will try to get back with you.

eipoop
May 27, 2011, 04:15 PM
Don't be stupid, he has another girl now. When a man is really interested in a girl he will leave everything to be with the one he wants. If he is doing what the other girl demands of him then that means he is really sprung on her. Get some pride and get over him.