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Richqirl101
Jan 2, 2011, 12:47 AM
Okkay Im Thirtteteen Years Old And Previously dated A guy Two Times. He's Fifteen Years Old. He Cheated on Me The First Time With His Ex Girlfriend That He Dated Like Eight Effin Times. The Second Time I forgave Him. And He Then Told My Best Friend He Like Her Whil we Were Toqethor! I can't Blame Him Because I was Actinq Like A *****! Only To Show Him How I felt In The First Relationship. My Friend Didn't Tell me Until AFter We broke Up. (Should I Be Mad. ] He Was Also talknq To Another qirl.

So Now Were Friends. We Have Sexual Activity Toqethor. But ithink That's all He wants With me. He Says He wants Another Chance! (Should I give it To Hym. ] How Do I Explain My Feelings Toward Him Sayinq Iwant To qive Us Another Try. He Never Brinqs The Topic Up Even Thouqh Ithrow Hints. Is It Wronq For Me To give Him a Chance. Imean Ilost My virqinity To Him.
&nd He qets Mad When I say He Acts Like All He wants Is Just Sex With Me.

Ireally need Answers!! Can Someonee Helpp Thiss Lost qirl.

Fr_Chuck
Jan 2, 2011, 08:02 AM
He just wants the sex. At 13 first you should not be having sex, and you will find older boys glad and standing in line to lie to you and have sex with you if they know they can.

Bonnie0414
Jan 3, 2011, 01:12 AM
He isen't worth your time... Like Fr_Chuck said all he wants is sex and knows he can get it from you don't waste your time or energy on this loser.

adviceishere
Jan 4, 2011, 07:38 AM
Your only 13 and having sex! I'm not on here to judge but your far too young to be even thinking of relationships and fighting over boys and stuff, when I was 13 I was still "playing" with my friends and having fun, forget him! When your older and you think back to how you were used your going to have major regrets, take it from someone that had experience in this field, I too was used like that and when I think back to how stupid I was to let someone use me and believe their lies that they liked me and stuff, it make me cringe thinking back, and I get really emotional about it, so please stop having sex! And stop all contact with this loser! Let him make a thick out of someone else but don't let him do it to you! Your better than that, never give in to sex let them beg for it and fight amounst each other over YOU and have sex when you fall in love and when your old enough.

Richqirl101
Jan 4, 2011, 03:36 PM
Thank Yuh Sooooo!! Much For This qreat Advice!! Keep Them Cominqq!
Iactually Listened Ndd Now We're Not Tlknqq. Itss Hard Because I Also Lost My Best Friend Butt Thinqs Have To Chanqe I quess.

adviceishere
Jan 5, 2011, 02:28 AM
Well done for listening tats a start, now just be strong and dignified and respect yourself! Respect is main thing you need to do, your body is a temple people should be very lucky to get close to you, tats how u need to think. Good luck ;)

Richqirl101
Jan 5, 2011, 03:26 PM
Yeah Iknoe :) Life's Kind Of qettnq better. Butt One question. Ibouqht him Jeans For Christmas. Should Iask for Them Back. Also He said He was qana buy me a presentt too. Should isay never mind.

Bonnie0414
Jan 8, 2011, 10:19 AM
The your best friend wasent really your best friend. Your better off with out them. People come and go in your life its naturally you grow up and apart. Best wishes

Richqirl101
Jan 8, 2011, 03:14 PM
Truee.
Whaa Aboutt The Jeans.

adviceishere
Jan 12, 2011, 09:28 AM
Haha no don't ask for them back the less contact the better! Next time you want to buy someone a gift make sure they're worthy first ;)

Richqirl101
Jan 15, 2011, 05:12 PM
Haa Smart!
Thankss You Guys Helped Me Alott!!
Imm Very Confidentt; Ha Some People Even Call Me Conceited Haha