I had sex with a condom and he didn't ejaculate but I'm worried about precum, I'm hoping the baby I'm pregnant with now is my boyfriends, we've been trying for a bby for 2 years and nothing. And now that I'm pregnant I pray its my bf's and not the other guys. Is there a chance I could have got pregnant by the other one?

There is a chance.

The only way you're going to know for sure who the father is, is after the baby is born, with a DNA test.

I hope not.. but is it the same chance if it only lasted about 30 seconds? Because I told him to get off!

Duration really doesn't have a lot to do with it.

You did lower the odds that it's him because you used a condom. But condoms fail.

There really is no way of knowing for sure until a DNA test is done. You'll have to wait and see.

The best thing would be to come clean with your boyfriend. Obviously there are problems in the relationship if you're having sex with other men.

It's best to get all of this settled before the baby is born, so there are no surprises.

While a slim chance, there is a chance, you will not be 100 percent sure till you get a DNA test after the baby is born.

And to be blunt, what type of relationship do you have with the child's father, if you are having sex with someome else during that same time frame

Well see, we weren't together at the time. But now we are. I hope there's a wayy bigger chance of my boyfriend bring the father

That still rings issues with your relationship with me, if a your breaking up and getting back together but still sleeping with another man between then I think you need a serious chat with your boyfriend. However it is possible however slim the chance that the baby could be the other blokes but like the others say a dna test will give you the answers you need... time to come clean!

So I hear that if he went pee before doing there's less likely to be sperm cells?

confused0411,

Unfortunately no one can give you a 100% guarantee that the baby is your boyfriend's. Given the information you have provided, the odds are far greater that your boyfriend is the father, but... there is a slight chance that the other man might be.

It would be very unlikely, however, given the use of a condom (if used correctly... putting it on before any entry for example), and that he did not ejaculate. That is about all the reassurance anyone can give you.

Urinating only helps if he has recently had a previous ejaculation... again, it does not guarantee some sperm will not be present.