There this person that Im not friends w/ and we left on bad terms when I was in high school that was 2 year younger; I am in collage now and they are still in high school.

They started to get into things that I didn't like and started to be someone I didn't want to be around. Im a good person who works hard and who doesn't get into the wrong crowds and when they started to change in a bad way I stopped talking and pretty much told them I wasn't their friend nicely as I could. That person then started to hate on me and started to act like a *** and mean.

I have matured some and when they message me on my space I was going to ignore them but I took the high road and told them, that I was over with what happen and I had move on from the past BUT that I didn’t want anything thing to do w/ high school past and the people that I once knew in high school.

I had Hope that they would get the picture that I still wasn't friend with them and that I didn’t want to hang out with them when they had asked.
-And I deleted them from my friends.

They later went and added a month later, I rejected them and I wasn’t using MySpace much anymore so I deleted my account as well.

But I know that they might see me in the future and if they haven’t got the message that I'm still not friends w/ them and they talk to me or whatever, I am somewhat afraid of what they might do if I let them down easy again and tell them that I am not friends with you anymore still.

What am I to do if this happens?
What if they do take it badly?
And what happen if after again I tell them again and they still will not leave me alone, what am I to do?

Well I don't know how bad the terms you ended on were, but if she does see you and want to talk just keep it friendly. Don't be rude or anything. If she keeps wanting to talk to you and you let her down easy but she gets violent or fixing to get violent, just try and walk away. If things get worse just file a restraining order.

It doesn't matter a whole lot about your and 'their' gender, but are you both female? It just helps a little to understand what sorts of jealousy and anger can evolve. It sounds like you are handling it pretty well. Many people are having problems with all the information that is on the net these days, especially social sharing sites. Stay low and it should pass now that you are in different worlds. The other kids still in HS probably could care less what she thinks and says about you in college.

U ask what the gender is but this person isn't a girl but a guy...

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Thank you for answering me, I prob should have put in the details, but this person is a guy. He talks a lot of BS but I don't know if he would get violent or not, but still I worry a little, you know.