bobthebuilder1
Dec 27, 2010, 11:45 PM
Moved to its own thread
Over 7 years of being together. 5 of which we have lived together. It has been great and she says she loves her life with me but she thinks there is somerthing missing. And that when she hugs me she should feel a "I love you so much" feeling. She doesn't feel that.
This came up 3 years ago and we put it down to her having some serious issues over not seeing her dad anymore and a void in her heart. She says Ive been more like a Dad to her and that's not enough anymore.
We have a 2 year old. We have decided to split up, but she is scared as she doesn't know if what she is looking for can be found as she knows we have so much together, and our relationship is so good.
I know it sounds crazy but its always been so good, and we respect one another etc. She says she desperately wants us to be together and it all to be fine but she doesn't think its fair to me that I love her more and that she is fighting with it all the time.
I don't know what to do.
Over 7 years of being together. 5 of which we have lived together. It has been great and she says she loves her life with me but she thinks there is somerthing missing. And that when she hugs me she should feel a "I love you so much" feeling. She doesn't feel that.
This came up 3 years ago and we put it down to her having some serious issues over not seeing her dad anymore and a void in her heart. She says Ive been more like a Dad to her and that's not enough anymore.
We have a 2 year old. We have decided to split up, but she is scared as she doesn't know if what she is looking for can be found as she knows we have so much together, and our relationship is so good.
I know it sounds crazy but its always been so good, and we respect one another etc. She says she desperately wants us to be together and it all to be fine but she doesn't think its fair to me that I love her more and that she is fighting with it all the time.
I don't know what to do.