I'm a girl and I had my ex girlfriend sleepover just as friends. We started tickling each other then the next thing I know were kissing. The reason she broke up with me before was that she didn't like me. *** is going on? She even asked me if this kiss meant that were together.

She got carried away by her emotions, and she wouldn't have slept over if she hated you.

What did you tell her when she asked about being together??

When she asked if we should get back together I said I don't know. We went out over a year ago and she broke up with me. I've still kind of had feelings for her but I thought hers were gone. We didn't talk to each other for awhile but then we did start talking and we become good friends again. I mean I really like her and she said that she likes me when were together. Do you think I should go back out with her or not?

Sure why not, you like each other!!

What if she says no? Also when we were kissing she asked if I wanted to have sex with her. I told her it would be my first time. She said that I should wait to lose it to someone I love. But I think I love her. It's just hard for me because she's always had guys and girls all over her. Even though she is full lesbian. Yea she flirts with me but then I also see her flirt with other people. I feel like I don't deserve her. What should I do?? I feel like this will never happen and she's just playing with me.

Then why are you playing with someone you think is playing you? This makes no sense any more. If you are afraid to trust her don't? Don't kiss, or have sex, or anything with her. Just tell her to leave you alone, and you leave her alone.

No more what ifs, or butts! Everything is solved, but your own fear.

I know I'm afraid and that's what I hate. I'm afraid that she'll say no, I'm afraid that if we do go out that my friends will think I'm desperate. But I can't leave her alone Ive already ****ed it up. I just want to know what's beat for me and her.

Leave her alone until you are sure what it is YOU want to do. That's what's best for YOU! What's the hurry, do other things until you decide.