overagain
Dec 26, 2010, 04:13 AM
This is a long story but I'll make it as short as possible.
So my ex-girlfriend Jenna were together for 3 years. On and off - we both had stages where we questioned our relationship and tried things with other people. But we always came back to each other in the end, we couldn't be apart for more than 2 months.
But she found a new girl - a workmate who she's completely fallen for, Sarah. Thing is, she had a girlfriend, too, Cassidy.
Jenna and I were still together when her and Sarah started their little fling. I was okay with it because I was unaware of how serious it was. But of course they got closer and closer, and Jenna told me that Sarah made her happier than I could, and made her feel like I've never made her feel before. So we broke up, so did Sarah and Cass.
Blah blah blah that was 4 months ago, Jenna and Sarah were spending every day together etc, Jenna still talked to me at times and came over when she needed something. Sarah still loved Cass so they got back together on the condition that Sarah stopped talking to Jenna. They did and so Jenna came back to me for sympathy and comfort, but she's still not over Sarah. (Jenna, Sarah, Cassidy and I all work together, adds to the awkwardness)
So this is the stage I'm at right now.
Jenna and I are two singles, I love Jenna and she claims to love me too (sometimes) but she's honest when she says she misses the time she spent with Sarah and she still has feelings for her.
Sarah and Cass are together, they live together and all so it's quite serious, but Sarah tells Jenna that she misses her too.
Jenna ignores me most of the time unless she wants something or needs I don't know something sexual (tmi) despite all my efforts to get closer to her again, but still says she loves me, but can't be with me because of the feelings she still has for Sarah.
Also earlier today I got a bit nosey so I looked through her phone, just to see if she'd been talking to Sarah lately. She hadn't, but she'd been talking to someone else about her. Saying that she doesn't miss me but she misses Sarah a whole heap and that the time she spent with her was the best of her life.
I'm sure I'm missing out a whole bunch of things.
I guess it's obvious that I should forget about her, I know I should... So I guess I just need confirmation or advice on how to do it.
I've spent the last 3 years depending on her and now that she's not here for me it couldn't really get harder.
Sorry for the big rant but please help if you can, I'm sick of being so upset about everything all the time ):
So my ex-girlfriend Jenna were together for 3 years. On and off - we both had stages where we questioned our relationship and tried things with other people. But we always came back to each other in the end, we couldn't be apart for more than 2 months.
But she found a new girl - a workmate who she's completely fallen for, Sarah. Thing is, she had a girlfriend, too, Cassidy.
Jenna and I were still together when her and Sarah started their little fling. I was okay with it because I was unaware of how serious it was. But of course they got closer and closer, and Jenna told me that Sarah made her happier than I could, and made her feel like I've never made her feel before. So we broke up, so did Sarah and Cass.
Blah blah blah that was 4 months ago, Jenna and Sarah were spending every day together etc, Jenna still talked to me at times and came over when she needed something. Sarah still loved Cass so they got back together on the condition that Sarah stopped talking to Jenna. They did and so Jenna came back to me for sympathy and comfort, but she's still not over Sarah. (Jenna, Sarah, Cassidy and I all work together, adds to the awkwardness)
So this is the stage I'm at right now.
Jenna and I are two singles, I love Jenna and she claims to love me too (sometimes) but she's honest when she says she misses the time she spent with Sarah and she still has feelings for her.
Sarah and Cass are together, they live together and all so it's quite serious, but Sarah tells Jenna that she misses her too.
Jenna ignores me most of the time unless she wants something or needs I don't know something sexual (tmi) despite all my efforts to get closer to her again, but still says she loves me, but can't be with me because of the feelings she still has for Sarah.
Also earlier today I got a bit nosey so I looked through her phone, just to see if she'd been talking to Sarah lately. She hadn't, but she'd been talking to someone else about her. Saying that she doesn't miss me but she misses Sarah a whole heap and that the time she spent with her was the best of her life.
I'm sure I'm missing out a whole bunch of things.
I guess it's obvious that I should forget about her, I know I should... So I guess I just need confirmation or advice on how to do it.
I've spent the last 3 years depending on her and now that she's not here for me it couldn't really get harder.
Sorry for the big rant but please help if you can, I'm sick of being so upset about everything all the time ):