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helpedorhelper
Dec 22, 2010, 06:42 PM
I need help asking her out. I did it before and she rejected me ,I know it'll take time but I'm willing to try to ask her again.anybody have any suggestions?

talaniman
Dec 23, 2010, 05:50 AM
Look around for others to ask out, because maybe she isn't interested. How old are you, and how well do you know this girl?

helpedorhelper
Dec 23, 2010, 09:18 AM
I know her a lot but I think she does kind of like me. My friends are jerks and tell her everything.ive tried asking others out but none of them say yes

talaniman
Dec 23, 2010, 10:22 AM
How old are you both??

helpedorhelper
Dec 23, 2010, 01:00 PM
She is twelve and I'm eleven but she doesn't care how old we both are. We are both very mature

talaniman
Dec 23, 2010, 02:41 PM
Oh come on, she said no! What makes you think she will change her mind? What are you trying to do, wear her down until she submits to your will out of exhaustion at saying NO!?

Leave it alone, or be a pest!!

helpedorhelper
Dec 23, 2010, 02:51 PM
We are friends and I am leaving it alone are you a girl how old are you if so!!

talaniman
Dec 23, 2010, 03:08 PM
The name says it all, and most of my grandkids are older than you by a few years.

jenniepepsi
Dec 23, 2010, 06:27 PM
OK hon. You are both too young to be worried about love. Walking out together (dating) casually is great. But at this age, don't lose sleep over a girl saying no. either don't worry about dating, or ask another girl.

Good luck

BasalduaJ
Dec 25, 2010, 08:55 PM
I don't know how old you are, but one thing I have learned is that as you get older, your perceptions change on what's beautiful and what's not. Than even later on in life you began to learn that beauty is nothing compared to character of the person. So when you are looking for the right girl remember those things.

Also as you get older your world becomes broader. Therefore, you meet a lot more people and you might change your mind about the girl you want now. Think about it this way, If you were with this one and you end p coming across the one that you could really fall in love with in every way and she too could fall in love with you in every way, you could be too tied up with this one that you will miss out on your blessing.

Don't loose heart your turn is coming but don't focus too much on what you're missing out on, or you will not see the blessing coming to you.

If she said no, once you will never be happy in that relationship.

Sometimes disappointments become a blessing in the future. Have you ever heard that country song "unanswered preyers" It's a good one. Similar to what's going on here.

Keep your head up, and one thing Girls do like is selfconfidence in there men. But not a big head. In other words not too much self confidence that you don't complement her because your too into yourself.