View Full Version : Pregnant? Help.
hunnuh17
Dec 21, 2010, 04:09 PM
So, I am only sixteen years old. I will be Seventeen in less than three months. I know this sounds bad, but please noo nasty comments, I think that there's a possibility that I could be pregnant, I am scared I don't know what to do. My mother was also a teen mom herself, The first time she had sex she had gotten pregnant, and she was seventeen at the time, I think that being a mom she would understand better and not be mad, but I know she just wants the best for me, How do I tell her if I am?
joypulv
Dec 21, 2010, 06:02 PM
I'd tell her now, before you know either way. Tell her you need her advice and that it's important and you value what she will say.
katt86
Dec 22, 2010, 10:08 AM
I would sit your mum down and speak to her, tell her how your feeling and what is possible. At least then you have some moral support for when you take a test and your mum will also respect your more for being able to confide in her... after all that's one reason that mums are there
jsje2010
Jan 14, 2011, 08:29 AM
Sit down and tell your mom. The worse she will do is cry, but if your not pregnant you should get on birth control unless you want a baby right now.
HistorianChick
Jan 14, 2011, 08:35 AM
Oh, sweetheart. You need your Mom's help and support through this. With her being a teen Mom herself, she will know what you're feeling and will be able to help you through this.
Even if you are not pregnant, your Mom should know that things are happening in your life, she can help you. Mom's are best at stuff like that - they've been there before.
Talk to your Mom. It's going to be hard, but just sit her down and be honest. There are no special words to say, just tell her what you're feeling, that you're scared, and that you really need her right now.
Then you need to get to a doctor and get a pregnancy test. If you're not pregnant, you should also get tested for ( I hate to say this, but it should be said ) STD's. You never know what can happen. Best to play it safe.
Talk to her. She will help you. Best of luck.