So I've been dating this guy for nine months now, and we have a lot of amazing great times and I love him with all my heart. The only thing is,I think he is addicted to weed. In the beginning of the relationship he said he would stop for me, but then he ends up actually doing it behind my back for two months straight. He's also on probation right now for selling it, and he wants to sell again, even while he's on probation. Now I really don't have a problem with someone doing an occasional smoke here and there, but he's constant. He's been smoking since he was eleven, and everyone around him, friends, family, friends parents all smoke. And I just am worried that he will never be happy with being sober, and living a life with me, weed free. What should I do? :(

He's not taking any of this seriously. He was raised with it and probably sees nothing wrong with it.

I definitely wouldn't stay with someone that sells weed. He could go to prison and drag you with him if you're in the wrong place at the wrong time. One event like that could ruin your life.

I think you need to seriously reconsider this relationship.

Thanks so much, you have just repeated exactly what everyone I know says about him. And that there is a problem with how our relationship is.