KK108642
Dec 15, 2010, 07:40 AM
We'll call me (K) my boyfriend (D) and his brother (F)
1. D and I moved into our own place. I'm 20 years old with 2 fulltime jobs and a fulltime student for nursing.
2. We decided to add F to the lease to help him get clean so he didn't have to go to jail.
3 About 3 weeks ago F brought his female friend over. No asking us if she can stay, nothing.
4. Frrom day one the girl tried to overpower me and degraded me in my own home.
Comments like:
I hate lazy as* bit*hes who just sit on their butts watching TV while other people clean their house. Now mind you, I was sitting on the couch, I was watching TV and she was doing the dishes. I had JUST gotten home from a 17 hour shift at work. D and I are the only people who work in the hosue, so sheesh the last thing that the other two can do is clean up THEIR MESSES.
5 so the other day we had a confrontation. Which ended up with her and her friend jumping me. The cops were called. The cops arrived and heard her say "you dont know how bad i just wanna smash her face in" yet they did not remove her from my house. After they left, she continued on. I ignored her completely. I started to pack my valuables so she couldn't steal or break them. She "danced" with me (when I went right she went left) so I couldn't get around her, she blocked the door so I couldn't get out and then continued on to threaten to kill me. So I took the door knob off my bedroom door and D and I slept like that. Half wayy through the night, her and her friend tried to come into my room! 0
6. The next day I went and filed a complaint at the police station. They took picture of my bruises. And I filed a trespass warrant and was suppose to go file for a restraining order at the court house (yet I work 7am to 10 at night... ) the court house is always closed.
7. so last night there was another confrontation as soon as I walked into my house from work. My uncle called the cops and yet the cops didn't do anything yet again. Saying that she is protected by squatters law... yet all of her stuff isn't in my house, she has no mail, her license does not have my address on it, she doesn't pay the bills and she's been there 3 weeks.. where I've been there for almost 8 months. I don't see how it is fair that I have to live in fear of my life every night, lock myself in my room let alone deal with all this immature bullcrap every night that I come home from work. I just want to freakin relax. After the cops left last night F started in with me, so I just went for a walk with D to calm down. I apologized for calling her out after the first confrontation and I tried to sit down and talk like civil adults but they wouldn't give me the time of day, they just continued to get in my face... whether they have no where else to go or not... that isn't my problem, she should have thought of that before laying her hands on me and disrespecting me in my home. Is there a way I can get her removed from my land ASAP! Please any help will be great.
Mind you: she is 35 years old. F is 26 years old.
1. D and I moved into our own place. I'm 20 years old with 2 fulltime jobs and a fulltime student for nursing.
2. We decided to add F to the lease to help him get clean so he didn't have to go to jail.
3 About 3 weeks ago F brought his female friend over. No asking us if she can stay, nothing.
4. Frrom day one the girl tried to overpower me and degraded me in my own home.
Comments like:
I hate lazy as* bit*hes who just sit on their butts watching TV while other people clean their house. Now mind you, I was sitting on the couch, I was watching TV and she was doing the dishes. I had JUST gotten home from a 17 hour shift at work. D and I are the only people who work in the hosue, so sheesh the last thing that the other two can do is clean up THEIR MESSES.
5 so the other day we had a confrontation. Which ended up with her and her friend jumping me. The cops were called. The cops arrived and heard her say "you dont know how bad i just wanna smash her face in" yet they did not remove her from my house. After they left, she continued on. I ignored her completely. I started to pack my valuables so she couldn't steal or break them. She "danced" with me (when I went right she went left) so I couldn't get around her, she blocked the door so I couldn't get out and then continued on to threaten to kill me. So I took the door knob off my bedroom door and D and I slept like that. Half wayy through the night, her and her friend tried to come into my room! 0
6. The next day I went and filed a complaint at the police station. They took picture of my bruises. And I filed a trespass warrant and was suppose to go file for a restraining order at the court house (yet I work 7am to 10 at night... ) the court house is always closed.
7. so last night there was another confrontation as soon as I walked into my house from work. My uncle called the cops and yet the cops didn't do anything yet again. Saying that she is protected by squatters law... yet all of her stuff isn't in my house, she has no mail, her license does not have my address on it, she doesn't pay the bills and she's been there 3 weeks.. where I've been there for almost 8 months. I don't see how it is fair that I have to live in fear of my life every night, lock myself in my room let alone deal with all this immature bullcrap every night that I come home from work. I just want to freakin relax. After the cops left last night F started in with me, so I just went for a walk with D to calm down. I apologized for calling her out after the first confrontation and I tried to sit down and talk like civil adults but they wouldn't give me the time of day, they just continued to get in my face... whether they have no where else to go or not... that isn't my problem, she should have thought of that before laying her hands on me and disrespecting me in my home. Is there a way I can get her removed from my land ASAP! Please any help will be great.
Mind you: she is 35 years old. F is 26 years old.