How do I control my urge for sex when my boyfriend is not in the mood for sex.

You learn to masturbate.

Masturbation.


Edit: My bad, answered, before reading previous post. Excellent advice if I do say so myself... lol.

Don't have to control but go for it.. its amazing feeling don't waste

Yup. Same thing a man learns to do when his wife doesn't want sex. :)