View Full Version : What should I do? I have my own Jake Ryan
braindamage
Dec 8, 2010, 10:02 PM
I have trouble talking to the guy I like. Its hard really hard especially when he's a grade older and is a complete and total ( I hate using this buuut) Bad Boy ew I know I cringed myself saying this but its true. He ditches, drugs but sometimes in class I observe him and I feel in weird way that there's more to him than that and I want to get to know it. Hes seems like an intresting guy. And of course there are his looks.. which are surprisingly not that great at all he looks like all them other persian dbags (if you go to my school you would be saying the same). And bottom line I don't know what to do. I like so much, And what brought most of my attention to him was the fact that he looks at me all the time and I'm not one to make **** up and stuff actually I'm the opposite I hate admitting things like that thinking my mind plays tricks on me but I don't know this time I don't think it is. But then again I don't know yes I am very insecure but hey I'm a teenage girl can you blame me!
So basically what should I do?
Thanks
leatu
Dec 9, 2010, 02:02 AM
I've beeen in this kind of situation befre. You hve to be very confident in yourself ( a new hair do always adds confidence).. just walk up to him an be yourself.. if he treats you niceli den go for it and see if stn special could come out of it,. nbuh f he acts like a jerk den he is a jerk.. he isn't wrth u!
joypulv
Dec 9, 2010, 03:25 AM
What kind of drugs? What does ditch mean, cut class? (I'm 2 generations behind.) How bad is bad?
Please keep comments about people's backgrounds to yourself when they are not complimentary, and don't tell people what they would or wouldn't feel. And putting down his looks when you are falling for him, what's with that? When you like someone they are the best looking person in the world, so don't try to cover up by saying otherwise about him and his entire culture.
You are going through what just about everyone in the world goes through when a teen, so try your best and if it falls flat, just know you are not alone. The usual tried-and-true first step is to say hi in halls and classes and outside, as you walk by. Don't rush by and don't pause too long. You can sort of rush by and then turn around and smile, and then turn back and hurry on. You could say something about a certain class 'now that defines boring' or 'I can't believe I have 3 more classes', as you are leaving, without really waiting for an answer. After 3 or 4 of those types of hellos (maybe work on something better than I came up with), you should have a clue about whether he is interested and if he really is looking at you a lot. If he starts saying hi back, you can start asking him about himself (music, etc) and revealing a little about yourself. Bad Boys can be just as insecure underneath when it comes to one on one as anyone, sometimes even more so.
stinaann
Dec 9, 2010, 08:36 AM
Giiirl (:
Being a teen myself, its hard, I admit. But self esteem is something guys like. Just sparkup a conversation some how, you don't have to get all nitty gritty with it. As long as you get a decent conversation, it can help direct you into whether of not he may be good for you. The fact that he does drugs isn't exactly the best either, it can be ver bad for you if you two do spark. Maybe he needs guidance away from drugs. Who knows. all I can say is start with simple small talk and work you way up. (:
-Christina
braindamage
Dec 9, 2010, 08:06 PM
Thank you all to true indeed.
braindamage
Dec 9, 2010, 08:07 PM
Amen to that!
braindamage
Dec 9, 2010, 08:07 PM
Thanks :)