outoflalaland
Dec 8, 2010, 02:44 PM
I am 46 my ex is 27:
We married 3yrs ago
Divorced in August last year (2009)
Dated three weeks after divorce till sept. 03 this year. (she broke up with me)
I was working on getting stable but I goy arrested for child support from a previous, I know what your going to say, but that ex was getting $3,000.00 per month one child. Judge orderd, I lost my job couldn't pay.
Anyway she breaks up with me 2 days later says she shouldn't have to pay for my past sins.
90 days later I get out I call her, she cries but tells me will never be together, we talked for an hour or so,
4 days laterr she calls back we talk laugh she vents, calls me a pedifile etc...
Now we get along like we never broke up its natural with us.
We agree to be friends,
2 days ago I tex her about 11pm at night and say: I screwed up, but I will love you forever, 12 hours later she contacts me and says she doesn't need love just food and shelter.
I responded I understand Michael.
That's it, I'm stuck, I really truly love this person, I can make it without her, I just don't want to.
Please advice me on whether I should contact her again its been almost 2days, I don't want to mack her, olay games I just want her and I want her smiling at any event.
Your friend in need and in Jesus Christ
By the way me and this woman really changed our lives together compared where we were originally.
Help!
Michael
We married 3yrs ago
Divorced in August last year (2009)
Dated three weeks after divorce till sept. 03 this year. (she broke up with me)
I was working on getting stable but I goy arrested for child support from a previous, I know what your going to say, but that ex was getting $3,000.00 per month one child. Judge orderd, I lost my job couldn't pay.
Anyway she breaks up with me 2 days later says she shouldn't have to pay for my past sins.
90 days later I get out I call her, she cries but tells me will never be together, we talked for an hour or so,
4 days laterr she calls back we talk laugh she vents, calls me a pedifile etc...
Now we get along like we never broke up its natural with us.
We agree to be friends,
2 days ago I tex her about 11pm at night and say: I screwed up, but I will love you forever, 12 hours later she contacts me and says she doesn't need love just food and shelter.
I responded I understand Michael.
That's it, I'm stuck, I really truly love this person, I can make it without her, I just don't want to.
Please advice me on whether I should contact her again its been almost 2days, I don't want to mack her, olay games I just want her and I want her smiling at any event.
Your friend in need and in Jesus Christ
By the way me and this woman really changed our lives together compared where we were originally.
Help!
Michael