Jeha
Dec 8, 2010, 11:08 AM
I'm only writing this message here because I don't really like to let people know all this about me. I'm emmbrassed by it.
Hi I'm 19 years old and well I have to say I understand what you are saying about the confidence thing. However when ever I get the slight moment of confidence it goes away when I'm 2 seconds aways from a person I want to speack to. I have had 4 girlsfriends throughout my life. Still all those girls I went out withwere all attracted to me before I went out with them. I have never been with a girl that I was attracted with first. I wouldn't say I'm shy, I'm kind of sensitive, I am not afriad to speak to girls. I have many female friends. Still when it comes to a girl I actually like I can never find any thing to take about. All I know is that when everi am near a person I'm attrcted to I am always thinking of wha to talk about and if I do find something it ends up being a 5 second conversation. I haven't had a girl friend in about 5 years. I don't even consider 3 of my relationships real only because I went out with one girl for 3 days another girl for a week and the other one I went out with her for a month but only saw here once throughout the month. I tried calling she ad excuses. I ended it.
So back to the main point I need tips ideas on what to do to get myself to walk up to girl and have a short flowing converation and end up with their number. Like once a year I pull up all my courage and end up asking a girl for her number and end up getting rejected. Back in high 2006-2010 I would ask some girls out but have all woth rejetions. I'll say I get rejected about 4 times a school year. Its fully because some of the girls I ask out end up being my friend. Kind of suck.
Hi I'm 19 years old and well I have to say I understand what you are saying about the confidence thing. However when ever I get the slight moment of confidence it goes away when I'm 2 seconds aways from a person I want to speack to. I have had 4 girlsfriends throughout my life. Still all those girls I went out withwere all attracted to me before I went out with them. I have never been with a girl that I was attracted with first. I wouldn't say I'm shy, I'm kind of sensitive, I am not afriad to speak to girls. I have many female friends. Still when it comes to a girl I actually like I can never find any thing to take about. All I know is that when everi am near a person I'm attrcted to I am always thinking of wha to talk about and if I do find something it ends up being a 5 second conversation. I haven't had a girl friend in about 5 years. I don't even consider 3 of my relationships real only because I went out with one girl for 3 days another girl for a week and the other one I went out with her for a month but only saw here once throughout the month. I tried calling she ad excuses. I ended it.
So back to the main point I need tips ideas on what to do to get myself to walk up to girl and have a short flowing converation and end up with their number. Like once a year I pull up all my courage and end up asking a girl for her number and end up getting rejected. Back in high 2006-2010 I would ask some girls out but have all woth rejetions. I'll say I get rejected about 4 times a school year. Its fully because some of the girls I ask out end up being my friend. Kind of suck.