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Tiago
Dec 8, 2010, 04:56 AM
I got divorced about 9 months ago and so has my new partner around the same time. I just fell out of this small relationship I was having with this girl for this other girl. Do we stand a chance?

Devorameira
Dec 8, 2010, 06:31 AM
Possibly, but it's really too soon to tell.

What kind of relationship do you have with your new girl?

answerme_tender
Dec 8, 2010, 08:24 AM
Tiago,

Have you tried being on your own for any amount of time? Learn what it is you have and also what you want in a relationship by knowing its okay not to be in any serious relationship. You seem to go from one to another without giving yourself time to heal from any of them.

If this relationship is going to work is up to you and your current partner. Make sure you are both with each other because you really have feelings and not because you need each other to financially make it! Good luck

Tiago
Dec 8, 2010, 09:39 AM
I'm going to be honest. I've just asked for advice from someone else's situation. Which is my ex girlfriend in my other question that I have asked. If you could please read it and maybe give me some ideas one where I stand I would be much help. Thanks

answerme_tender
Dec 8, 2010, 09:56 AM
Tiago,

To be honest, I don't know. I would be cautious before falling to fast for this woman. She has gone from one relationship to another without ever really being on her own. We all need to be okay with ourselves. What I mean by that is: can take care of ourselves financially,emotionally. If a person doesn't know how to do either one of those, then they tend to go NEED to be in a relationship instead of WANTING to be in one.

talaniman
Dec 8, 2010, 09:59 PM
Thanks for being honest, but this thread is closed and I hope you post on your situation on your thread and let your friend start their own. That stops a lot of confusion.