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Dancer910
Dec 4, 2010, 08:23 PM
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month now, but we have known each other for forever. Anytime we are together we are always so comfortable and we can talk about anything without hesitation, so it's not like there is an awkwardness between us. But, he never hugs me or holds my hand and I don't understand why he won't. We've been out on dates but he just won't do anything. The only time he has ever actually touched me was the night he asked me out, when we were dancing. I just don't understand why? What can I do?

Andrew916
Dec 4, 2010, 08:47 PM
Some people just aren't very physical. Are you his first girlfriend and how old are you guys?

-Drew

Dancer910
Dec 4, 2010, 08:51 PM
No, he's had two girlfriends before me and we are both fifteen.

talaniman
Dec 5, 2010, 09:10 AM
Do you hold his hand, or hug him? / Sometimes we have to teach our partners by example, else how will they know what you want from them?

iloveuj_11
Mar 7, 2011, 01:17 PM
same here my boyfriend wont hug me or hold my hand and we've been dating for over a month.
well some ppl say if u like bump ur hand into ur boyfriends hand he might get the idea that u want to hold his hand i dont no if that really works but i am going to try and i'll let u no if it works for me.
i dont know how u can make ur boyfriend hug u but i think u should jst ask him for a hug and if he says no well it kinda means he doesnt really like u but he probably will hug u sense u guys r going out.

iSammy
Apr 5, 2011, 06:08 AM
Believe me I know how you feel. I've been dating my boyfriend for around 4 months now and we've hugged, like, 10 times tops. Sometimes, as a dare, I run up behind him and hug him and I see him smile a bit, but its always me! I always wonder to myself, why won't he make the first move? Im not really helping, am I? I'll give you some advice that I need to take myself, but I won't...

Either A) Hold his hand yourself as you walk together. If he pulls away, he's either frigid (scared) or not into you.

Or B) Get your friends to talk to him << My option right there.

JoelIsMyFriend
Apr 30, 2011, 05:56 PM
Probably he's not ready??