Im paranoid, jealous, obessive and pick on every little detail that I don't like in my girlfreind. But I know she's the best thing that will ever happen to me. She puts up with me when all of it happens, she's there for me, she's as faithful and loyal as an angel and she would never even think of treating me half the way I do her. *sigh* I need someone to help me change.

Break up with her and spend some time learning to be happy with yourself so that you can become the person she deserves. Jealousy is just a manifestation of your own insecurities, and you nitpicking her faults just demonstrates that you don't have enough going on independently of her. Pursue some interests, join some clubs, and do some volunteer work.

Your need to evaluate what you need and what you don't need. You need time to grow find out who you are. You shoud explain to your girlfriend that you are know of how you have been acting towards her and apolgies. I you know what's wrongs start slowly by fixing your faults.

Make gratitude your attitude, and appreciations the actions you show her, while you take some thought in what you say, or how you act, or react, or else the angel will get tired of the devil's bull crap!

Who wants to be around someone that's so immature they cannot control themselves. So stop acting out your bad side, and show the good side. You do have one don't you?