mazydazy
Dec 2, 2010, 11:26 AM
Hello All,
I've been out of the "dating, flings etc." for so long that I need to have some feedback on this situation. I've been in a "live-together" relationship for seven years which went sour some years ago, but we still live together: minus intimacy! The thing is, I was contented over the years to let things be, and I had no problem with the lack of sex in the relationship. However, I went on a recent vacation and met someone who I spent time with. I had no previous intentions of being with anyone and I don't know how this happened but I spent most of time with this person, hanging out, talking and being intimate! When I returned home; I was and still is messed up in my mind. Can't say that I know this person much and I know I'm not in love, but I can't stop thinking about them. It seems like I can't function, but that person is miles away. We have spoken to each other almost every day since I got home and I fall asleep and wake up thinking about them, although I never told them this. I've asked myself tons of questions like: What do I expect from it; How to move on; How to forget; Should I forget etc.etc. I need for you guys on the outside to analyze this for me and advise me PLEASE!
I've been out of the "dating, flings etc." for so long that I need to have some feedback on this situation. I've been in a "live-together" relationship for seven years which went sour some years ago, but we still live together: minus intimacy! The thing is, I was contented over the years to let things be, and I had no problem with the lack of sex in the relationship. However, I went on a recent vacation and met someone who I spent time with. I had no previous intentions of being with anyone and I don't know how this happened but I spent most of time with this person, hanging out, talking and being intimate! When I returned home; I was and still is messed up in my mind. Can't say that I know this person much and I know I'm not in love, but I can't stop thinking about them. It seems like I can't function, but that person is miles away. We have spoken to each other almost every day since I got home and I fall asleep and wake up thinking about them, although I never told them this. I've asked myself tons of questions like: What do I expect from it; How to move on; How to forget; Should I forget etc.etc. I need for you guys on the outside to analyze this for me and advise me PLEASE!