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jaelyn22
Dec 1, 2010, 11:32 PM
I was with my ex for almost 5 years and we always had unprotected sex. Well after tons of problems in our relationship we broke up. I slept with this new guy thinking it would help but I just ended up pregnant. I slept with the new guy on August 19th and I felt really guilty. So when my ex called me late that Saturday night I slept with him, which was August the 22nd. My LMP was August 8th or 9th! Is there anyway to tell who my baby's daddy is?

J_9
Dec 2, 2010, 12:04 AM
Having intercourse this close together makes it impossible to tell when you conceived. The only way you are going to find out who the father is would be to have a paternity test done after the birth of the baby.

jaelyn22
Dec 2, 2010, 12:26 AM
Thanks. I knew there wasn't a way to find out exactly besides a DNA test, which I am getting. I was just curious to see what people who answer. Its so stressful and I feel horrible. These are the only two guys I've slept with but yet I feel like the biggest hoe. Sorry but I had to say it. My ex isn't a good guy at all and I recently found out he cheated almost the whole time. The new guy seems so perfect,but the situation were in makes things so stressful. Thanks again:)

J_9
Dec 2, 2010, 12:30 AM
I was just curious to see what people who answer.

As an RN in obstetrics, I can assure you there is no other way to find out, sadly.

I understand how stressful it is, don't beat yourself up over it. Mistakes happen, yes even life changing mistakes, BUT this can be the beginning of a new you.