View Full Version : How do I win him back?
Starrx
Nov 29, 2010, 02:12 PM
For ages I liked this guy in my brothers year who's 19 (I'm 16) and we started talking a lot and he told me he liked me. We arranged to meet one day and it was really good and we kissed and I was really happy. He then text me the next day asking me out which I would have been OK with but he started talking about telling his whole family (including his sister) and saying I should tell my mum which who would not be cool at all ! So I freaked out and said that I didn't want a full blown relationship which he said he was fine with. Then he text me 3 weeks later drunk saying he wasn't cool with it all and I broke his heart and used him and how he wanted to be with me and I felt horrible because I did still like him but he's at university and it's not fair on him when he'll hardly see me. Basically I still like him and he told me he's moved on, and he's sarcastic and horrible to me now. How do I get him to like me again or at least make us the way we were ?
talaniman
Nov 29, 2010, 02:59 PM
Sorry, but you don't go back to the way it was because he is gone now. You can't make him like you because he has figured out that nothing can happen between you, and that he wants a full blown relationship, and you can't give that to him.
You can only do as he has done, and realize that its not going to work, your way, or his way, and move on as he has.
Sorry for your loss.
FarmRacer15
Nov 29, 2010, 04:11 PM
My advice would be... find another guy... if he is drunk and saying that type of stuff... it won't be worth the heartache that you are destined to get. Most of the time when guys get drunk they say what they really thik.. so I wouldn't waste the tears on him... if one day you see a TRUE change in him it might be okay to try again but you better go into that with both eyes open! You might try visiting any other friends you may have at that university but be careful guys can be TWISTED!
killerwhales22
Dec 22, 2010, 07:55 PM
Do you want a full blown relationship now?
If you do then tell him that, but if you don't it is not such a good idea.
Also is him getting drunk a likely accorince? If it getting in a relationship with may lead to violence, or watever he does when he gets drunk. Personally I would suggest just finding another guy who wants the same things you do.
WISH YOU THE BEST!!