View Full Version : How can I win her heart
deeze5
Nov 28, 2010, 02:26 PM
Me and this girl was together she really liked we were together 6 months but its like things went bad she says she just don't want this any more she says she love me. But her heart want let her be in love with me. Because her first love really broke her heart an she feels I would do the same so she left me how can I get her back and make her fall in love with me
talaniman
Nov 29, 2010, 12:31 PM
Unless you know Voodoo magic, or have a witch for a friend, there is nothing you can do but leave her alone, and move on to better things.
You CANNOT control the feelings of others, nor make them care for you. Its foolish to try. Sorry for your disappointment, but there will be better options once you stop holding out hope she will change her mind.
FarmRacer15
Nov 29, 2010, 05:06 PM
Stay close as just a friend and sometimes (not always) people can earn trust.. and you may get a shot.. if she does love you in any sort there is always some light of hope.
momilee
Dec 16, 2010, 02:19 PM
Saying "It's not you, it's me" is so cliche' now that a lot of people try to disguise it by adding all the details... "I can't love again," she says, but if you put effort into changing her mind, you will be completely crushed when she finds her ability to love--and it's somebody else.
Move on, drown your disappointment with some time with your buddies for a bit, and maybe you'll have a new interest, or even girlfriend, by the time she finds her ability to love.
Don't take it personally either, you can't be everybodies cup of tea, and it's possible that when she see's somebody else interested in you, she'll second guess her feelings. Maybe someday you guys will date, maybe not, but there are a lot of other people out there.