I have somebody that treats me wonderful.He is just the sweetest guy.But... I can't stop thinking about my ex.Its not like I want anything back.Its just memories.Everywhere I go... Makes me think.How do I stop.I can't go back to that relationship.. It was not healthy.

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Its no very realistic to expect to get completely over a failed relationship and jump into another one without some past feelings haunting you. What you have done is rebound from one person to another without a proper healing process.

I think it takes a lot longer than the few months you have given yourself. A lot longer!!

Tal is right - you just aren't ready for another relationship. You need to take some extra time to heal!

I guess they both are saying correct you have not given yourself enough time to get over the old relationship you were alone and your current boyfriend just came as a ray of hope for you and you accepted it. But truth is this current guy is just a rebound to you.. be single for some time give yourself some time and concentrate on yourself. Your are not over your ex. And if this guy is so nice and loves you so much don`t do wrong to him talk to him and tell what you feel and ask him some time for yourself and to get your ex out of your head. Don't DO WRONG TO Yourself AND TO YOUR PRESENT GUY TOO.