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nikki925
Nov 24, 2010, 07:36 PM

nikki925
Nov 24, 2010, 07:39 PM

nikki925
Nov 24, 2010, 07:54 PM
And I picture him always having sex with one of the client family members to the point that my chest compress and sometimes he don t text me for a while or call me is ruining our marriage, he work six days a week and 12 hr shift. What can I do?

smoothy
Nov 24, 2010, 07:55 PM
Why not?

Fr_Chuck
Nov 24, 2010, 10:19 PM
Many men can have full complete sex many times a day.

Fr_Chuck
Nov 24, 2010, 10:38 PM
No, his not calling is not the problem. Your unfounded fear is.
He is working, not on personal time setting around with time to call you a lot.

What has he done to make you think he is cheating, how many times in the past have you caught him cheating,

Depending on his duties, he works very hard, doing often dirty work, Not having romance with family members.

Perhaps you can get a job so you don't have so much time on your hand ? Perhaps you can get counseling to deal with your fear.

You are most likely driving your husband crazy , expecting him to call all the time to "check in" You are correct in this is ruining your marriage, since if you keep this up, he may get tired of it soon

Fr_Chuck
Nov 24, 2010, 10:42 PM
A man can swear and lie any way they want. Why would you think they could not. One lie is as easy as another

Alty
Nov 24, 2010, 10:48 PM
Sure he can swear on his daughters life. The question is, does he think that swearing to something is meaningful, or is it just words that mean nothing?

I wouldn't rely on anyone swearing on anything, I'd base things on fact, not oaths.

Alty
Nov 24, 2010, 10:51 PM
Wow, you sure do have trust issues.

How often does he have to text you during the day in order for you to feel secure?

Has he done anything that would make you think he's cheating, or is it that you have too much time on your hands to sit around and imagine all these scenarios in your head?

Marriage involves trust. It involves communication. You don't have either.

If you keep being this demanding and suspicious he may well go out and have an affair, because you're driving him nuts.

Time to get a job or a hobby so you have something else to think about.

Alty
Nov 24, 2010, 10:54 PM
You seem to have a lot of trust issues about your husband. I've read your other posts, they're all about the possibility of your husband cheating, even though it seems to be all in your head and your over imagination.

He said he isn't cheating, so why can't your trust him?

Fr_Chuck
Nov 24, 2010, 10:59 PM
I agree, some days I get so busy I don't have time to call or text my wife, nor does she expect me to, since I am working.

Alty
Nov 24, 2010, 11:01 PM
I agree, some days I get so busy I don't have time to call or text my wife, nor does she expect me to, since I am working.

My husband hardly ever calls me from work, unless there's an emergency or he wants to know if he should pick something up on the way home.

I just don't understand the women that expect a call or a text numerous times a day. He's there to work. You can talk when he comes home. ;)