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Dano_ben
Nov 17, 2010, 10:24 AM
]Hey guys, this is my first post, and would really appreciate some feedback.

I can not say that we are in true relationship >we are a good friends since 5 years back.. in late January he said that he want me and am the one for him that conversation was very interesting
We talked a lot often he expressed his admiration for me but he said he liked my physically I didn't get the point I thought that this feeling comes with love I can feel that he want me so badly just when I look into his eyes but I can't differentiate between if he love me or just want me physically I love him so badly we don't talk that much as before when we were just friends we are not true lovers but we are not just friends I can't go back to our relationship as before friends also can't live normal love story I love him and he want me physically I living with hope that his feeling mixed with love...
Please help me he is in my mine every single second but we talk only once weekly every call he says to me I can't express my care without physical relationship our
Religious and community does not allow such relationships..
How do I can handle with this please help..
My regards..

Aleeravilu
Dec 3, 2010, 10:09 AM
The guy is lusting after you, and that is not a good thing. Love may include lust. But lust definitely does not lead to love. The best thing now is to tell him clearly that you don't want to get physical. If he truly loves you, he will understand and will respect your decision. Real love can wait.
Otherwise, if he just wants your body, leave him. Seriously, leave him. Do not love someone who just lusts after your body.

SeirraA
Dec 6, 2010, 07:03 AM
Tell him what you just said. Be honest. Honestly is the key. He admitted he wants you physically.. which is awful actually.
Its so hard, but yo got to do it. If you really think you love him and that its worth then tell him how you feel about this, possibly do anything unless he tells you. Tell him making out and any further.. isn't what you want.

SeirraA
Dec 6, 2010, 07:05 AM
If it turns out he wants you physically, then please don't do this to yourself. Move on, its possible.. good luck.