simonkey369
Nov 13, 2010, 01:54 PM
My wife and I have recently separated,about 1 month ago, it was a case of she wasn't in love with me anymore, about 4 months ago she asked for time apart and stayed round a friends house every night, came home at 6 in the morning so I could leave for work , you see we have 2 little girls 3 and 5 ,she looked after them in the day and when I returned from work I did the eve shift , this went on for 3 months. About 4 weeks ago I found out she had been having an affair the hole time . We have a joint mortgage and currently tied in to a fixed rate for about the next 16 months , she wants me out as soon as possibly , and I think she will want her new boyfriend to move in and live with my 2 girls . I'm not abusive in any way shape or form , have never threatened her or my children and never will , I am a devoted husband and dad, who's just going through the motions at the moment .My question is can she make me leave my home , she can't afford to pay me my half and plus she wants to keep our family home and run it on her own ! I am guilty of neglecting my wife over the years by being as good a father as I thought possible , we have room in our house so I sleep in the spare room and things are OK as far as arguing goes , there's very little.
Please advise as I feel like I'm being forced although I may be wrong .
Yours mr Simon Lesbirel
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Please advise as I feel like I'm being forced although I may be wrong .
Yours mr Simon Lesbirel
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