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Nessa08
Nov 13, 2010, 12:34 PM
Well I am 7 weeks pregnant I am 18 years old my boyfriend/babyfather is 29 I found out that he is going to be the father not my ex.Well he doesn't want me to have the baby and I do, he is sayn that the money is not good.But he has 2 kids already by this other woman.What should I do? I am so stressed out. Please leave me some advice I will appreciate it.
DoulaLC
Nov 13, 2010, 12:45 PM
If it is determined, through DNA testing after baby is born, that he is indeed the father, he will be responsible to help support the child.
What do you want to do? Do you have any family support? Are you in school? There are many organizations available to help mothers in need. If you decide to keep the baby, ask your doctor for information on what is available in your area.
Another option is adoption... there are wonderful agencies that will help you with this decision and placing the baby in a loving home.
There is also the option of abortion. This would be something that you would want to get information on as soon as possible as the options to have it done change the farther along you are. You can check out planned parenthood or a pregnancy crisis center in your area to get more information.
Any option you choose will have pros and cons for each individual. They all include some tough decisions.
I wish you well...
Nessa08
Nov 13, 2010, 01:02 PM
Thank you :)
Fr_Chuck
Nov 13, 2010, 01:27 PM
He has no chocie and no say in this matter what so ever, If he is not going to be there for you, it is obvious he was only wanting sex with you, not a real relationship and it is better if he is gone. ( with a lesson learned hoefully)
So have the baby, ( that is what you want) get a DNA test to prove whose child it is, and if it is this mans, baby, you file for child support and not worry if the "money ain't right.