I been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we may be a bit young but I no I'm ready for it but I'm just scared of how much it will hurt somebody tell me how much it hurt's (I LOVE HIM SO MUCH) and I no he want to have sex.

How young?

14

Are you two ready to be parents? -- good jobs, cars, car insurance, a nice place to live, money saved up, educations completed, the approval of your parents, and emotionally mature?

Love isn't a good enough reason to have sex, especially if you're only 14.

And to answer that, yes it does hurt, and yes you are way ( and did I say way) to young to have sex. It for one, is not even legal anywhere

I know you probably don't want to hear this, but your to young and should wait.

My mom was pregnant with me when she was 14 and had me when she was 15. And yes the condom broke. Because she had me at such a young age I honestly had a very crappy childhood, and she wound up passing away when I was 5.

Sex for the first time is different for everyone. Most people yes it hurts, and you can start bleeding. I can not change your mind, so please be safe!

Yes you may say I'm too young but I love him I'm on the pill anyway

yes you may say im too young but i love him im on the pill anyway
The Pill isn't enough protection. The odds are you will get pregnant.

I just love him x

Love is not about sex... and the pill isn't 100%

And you have a baby, and he wants nothing to do with it, because he wants to go out and do things, and your stuck at home with no friends, money, trying to keep up with school

Are you going to say that's okay I love him?

Love is a very strong word. And honestly I think your idea of love, is crazy teen hormones

Will you still love him when the baby is crying at to a.m. and he's not there to help and you have a test at school in the morning but haven't gotten much sleep and forget about studying because you've been too busy with the baby? Yeah, love.

And he can tell you he loves you, only because he wants sex not because he really loves you.

I was in love at 14 now that I'm older, I realize it wasn't love.

Who's going to buy all the diapers for the baby? What about the formula, or do you plan to breastfeed? When your friends call and want you to go with them to the mall, you'll pack up the diaper bag full of baby needs and hope the baby doesn't cry too much while you're there (because that will certainly ruin everyone's fun and no one will ask you to go along again)?

I'm a 13 year old girl but you may say I'm too young but me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other since I was 8 we have been friend since I was 3 we love each other a lot (his already fingered me and I've gave him a hand job + blow job) I just want to noo how much it hurts I'm a bit scared we have had a talk about sex and stuff it's his brithday in a couple of week I noo he want to have sex and I do I've got an inplant and we are going to use a condom just please tell me what to doo (I love him so much) we are always happy together x

Where on earth have your parents been?!

No form of birth control is 100% effective, except for abstinence. So yeah, that sounds like a great birthday present, risk getting pregnant with your 13 year old boyfriend and risk ruining your life, his life, and the babies life. Are you ready to be a parent? Is he ready?

If you two really love each other you will both be happy to wait until you are older and ready to deal with all of the risks that come with sex.

Wow. Just went and read your other posts. How old are you really? And are you even really on anything form of birth control?

Sex can hurt the first time. You should know that even with birth control there's still a chance you could get pregnant, and I'll tell you now, giving birth really hurts, a lot!

Yes I'm going to tell you you're too young. I'm also going to tell you that it's unlikely that this boy and you will stay together. You're a child. I was a child once too, and I remember thinking I knew everything. I was so very wrong, and so are you.

If you're really in love than why not wait? If you love him now you'll love him in 5 years, right?

What do your parents think about their 13 year old child having sex. When you said you have an implant what kind, and how did you get it? I can't imagine any doctor putting an implant contraceptive into a 13 year old.

There's a reason that children shouldn't have sex. It's because they're children. No one should have sex until they're financially, emotionally and physically ready to have a child. You don't even fall into one of those categories.

Please listen and wait. You won't regret waiting, I promise you that. There's no rush to grow up, just be a kid while you still can.

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xteeheex any chance of telling the TRUTH here ?
So you have been with this person since you were 8!!

How old is this "boy" ?

Okay, which is it? Are you 13 or 14? Are you on the pill or have an implant? Have you been together since you were 8 or for the last 2 years?

We don't appreciate lies, or stories that change every few minutes. Tell the truth and we'll help, keep changing your story and you're on your own. We volunteer here, we don't need to put up with lies.

Implant in your arm I had it done a while ago I got my 22 year old friend to say she was my mom


And anyway nobody understands me
My older sister was having sex at 12

Last chance.
STOP lying to us.

You CANNOT get the implant in the UK at 13 years old, no matter what!!

Tell the truth or I WILL remove you from this site.

That doctor should have their license revoked. That would have made your friend 8 or 9 when she had you, depending on which version of your story we're talking about.

And we understand you all right. We remember what it was like to be a hormonal tween and what we used to think was love at that point. The difference is, most of us have grown up and know that there's a big difference between love and lust and that you're not in love, it's just lust and hormones.

And just because your sister had sex at 12 doesn't make it right. That's probably the same age my grandmother started having sex at too. She had her fist kid at 14. I don't think she ever did end up graduating from high school.

implant in your arm I had it done a while ago I got my 22 year old friend to say she was my mom


And anyway nobody understands me
My older sister was having sex at 12

You have a 22 year old friend that's willing to lie for you? Where are your parents?

So your sister didn't give a darn about herself or her body, and now you think it's okay to follow in her footsteps? If she jumped off a bridge would you?

Nobody understands you? How so? Nobody understands a 13/14 year old girl wanting to have sex with her 13/14 year old boyfriend? There are reasons for that.

You're not thinking about the future, you're only thinking in the now, which is why children shouldn't engage in adult activities, because they can't look ahead, they don't realize the consequences of their actions. I bet you think that nothing bad (like pregnancy) can happen to you. That's what every teen thinks.

You're too young to be playing these games. Stop while you still have a chance. There's absolutely nothing wrong with waiting until you're older. If you boyfriend really loves you then he'll wait.

Xtee,

I am really trying to understand this entire post.

I'm not quiet sure if you are a troll, or just a young girl who really is in search of knowledge.

So, I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt.

First of all, I will ask you the same thing that everyone else has... Where are your parents? Where is the supervision for both you and your sister?

Ok, so I will be honest with you and my MOTHER is coming out when I say that you are just a baby. Sweetie, I was playing barbies at your age.

I know you may think you're in love, but, you're not. At your age, you don't know nor understand that kind of love.

Lets just say, hypothetically speaking, you were in love, why not just wait? If he loves you, (which I doubt) then he can wait.

You are scared because deep down you know you're not ready.

Please be smart about this. You are still a baby, a baby, a baby...

Well judging by the fact I have removed TWO other accounts created by this person in the last hour I guess we will never hear the truth of the matter.

It's just amazing what some people do for kicks!!

Explains why her user name is teehee, its just a joke. A laughing matter for herself

Well judging by the fact I have removed TWO other accounts created by this person in the last hour I guess we will never hear the truth of the matter.

It's just amazing what some people do for kicks !!!

I guess she didn't like the fact that we were catching on to her lies.

I always find it funny that people think we're that stupid or that naïve.

Well I hope it was worth all the effort for her. :rolleyes: