nkj0000
Nov 6, 2010, 02:31 PM
I'm quite embarrassed to be honest... I never wanted to be that naïve, gullible girl that gave her boyfriend money and he promises to pay her back and he doesn't... but well I am!
Pretty much he was tight on money(he worked outside over the summer and because we got a ton of rain this year he was barely able to work... I told him he should look for a new job but because the boss is a very close friend to my ex's, he said he just couldn't abandon him.. anyways.. it wasn't a good year for any landscaping business) asked to pay for a few things like his security deposit ($300), and his power bill($300) but with every intention of paying me back when he was able to come up with the money. And because he was tight on money.. his income was through selling drugs with his roommate... which he knew I hated and tried to get him to stop many many times, and then eventually did... but his roommate didn't and his roommate ending up screwing my ex over the most because his roommate owed him money to some other drug dealers and told these guys that my ex and him were partners.. so all of my ex's stuff got taken and my xbox as well. I didn't know about this until my ex came and met me up after work very upset about all this and asked to borrow money to get there stuff back because that was the only way they were going to get his stuff back was paying these guys... I was VERY hesitant about this because he still didn't pay me my already 600$ dollars previously and because I didn't agree with what was going on but because I was foolishy in love I did. I gave him 600$ from taking it off my credit card. He said he was getting a raise from his boss (which was barely anything) that week and would pay me back... which he didn't. He also said if they didn't get the stuff back he would buy me a new xbox (not the newest ones which were $300 but the version I had which was now $150... soo at this point he owes me $1350. Then my ex and his roommate were looking to buy a TV off kijiji. And the day they were supposed to get it, his roommate didn't have enough money to buy it until the next day and his roommate was going to pay me back.. He did, but he gave the money to Mark and well I never saw that money. He said he was going to pay me back but decided to go get drunk with that money instead and then decided he shouldn't have to give me that money because I spent a lot of time at his apartment and he spent a lot of money on me (r u kidding me?) and we got into a fight and then I just said whatever, don't pay me that money back, and then the next day he said he would and that was the deal ever since even though he keeps telling me (to this day) that I said don't bother paying me that money back.. which is crap.. then he dumped me about 2 weeks later after he went three hours south to work on a farm for his brothers boss. He was still saying he was going to pay me back when he gets money after harvest is over... Well its over and its been a week and every day he says he is going to pay me back but he keeps putting it off and giving me excuses saying the cheque didn't clear , etc... I have a ton of text messages from the last two months saying he is going to pay me back. And I haven't seen a penny. He also has my fishtank and said he would pay me $50 for that to keep it... So in total he owes me $1720. I don't have any receipts, the one from the power bill believe is at my exs.. good luck in me ever seeing that... but I paid it on my credit card and its on my statement?. I also don't know where my slip is from the money order I used to pay his security deposit with, I believe it is at my exs as well. But do you think I can get a photocopy of the money order if I go to the apartment and ask for it? It has my info on it stating this is for my exs security deposit.. everything else well was just taken off my credit card... nothing is written.. all verbal agreement.. but I do have tons of text messages.. like 50 of them... saying he is going to pay me back on certain dates and even caught him in a lie about paying me back
Any advice?
Pretty much he was tight on money(he worked outside over the summer and because we got a ton of rain this year he was barely able to work... I told him he should look for a new job but because the boss is a very close friend to my ex's, he said he just couldn't abandon him.. anyways.. it wasn't a good year for any landscaping business) asked to pay for a few things like his security deposit ($300), and his power bill($300) but with every intention of paying me back when he was able to come up with the money. And because he was tight on money.. his income was through selling drugs with his roommate... which he knew I hated and tried to get him to stop many many times, and then eventually did... but his roommate didn't and his roommate ending up screwing my ex over the most because his roommate owed him money to some other drug dealers and told these guys that my ex and him were partners.. so all of my ex's stuff got taken and my xbox as well. I didn't know about this until my ex came and met me up after work very upset about all this and asked to borrow money to get there stuff back because that was the only way they were going to get his stuff back was paying these guys... I was VERY hesitant about this because he still didn't pay me my already 600$ dollars previously and because I didn't agree with what was going on but because I was foolishy in love I did. I gave him 600$ from taking it off my credit card. He said he was getting a raise from his boss (which was barely anything) that week and would pay me back... which he didn't. He also said if they didn't get the stuff back he would buy me a new xbox (not the newest ones which were $300 but the version I had which was now $150... soo at this point he owes me $1350. Then my ex and his roommate were looking to buy a TV off kijiji. And the day they were supposed to get it, his roommate didn't have enough money to buy it until the next day and his roommate was going to pay me back.. He did, but he gave the money to Mark and well I never saw that money. He said he was going to pay me back but decided to go get drunk with that money instead and then decided he shouldn't have to give me that money because I spent a lot of time at his apartment and he spent a lot of money on me (r u kidding me?) and we got into a fight and then I just said whatever, don't pay me that money back, and then the next day he said he would and that was the deal ever since even though he keeps telling me (to this day) that I said don't bother paying me that money back.. which is crap.. then he dumped me about 2 weeks later after he went three hours south to work on a farm for his brothers boss. He was still saying he was going to pay me back when he gets money after harvest is over... Well its over and its been a week and every day he says he is going to pay me back but he keeps putting it off and giving me excuses saying the cheque didn't clear , etc... I have a ton of text messages from the last two months saying he is going to pay me back. And I haven't seen a penny. He also has my fishtank and said he would pay me $50 for that to keep it... So in total he owes me $1720. I don't have any receipts, the one from the power bill believe is at my exs.. good luck in me ever seeing that... but I paid it on my credit card and its on my statement?. I also don't know where my slip is from the money order I used to pay his security deposit with, I believe it is at my exs as well. But do you think I can get a photocopy of the money order if I go to the apartment and ask for it? It has my info on it stating this is for my exs security deposit.. everything else well was just taken off my credit card... nothing is written.. all verbal agreement.. but I do have tons of text messages.. like 50 of them... saying he is going to pay me back on certain dates and even caught him in a lie about paying me back
Any advice?