I am 16 years old and my boyfriend's just 14 though he doesn't look and act like one. Anyway, that's not the main matter. Our parents placed a lot of trust on us and then we screwed up. Now I'm scared, totally scared.

Well this is what happened. There was this day when we were fooling around, oral sex. Then he ejaculated and after that, we wiped it all up. He went to the CR and check his head, even the hole on his head if there were left. He washed it. And then about after 5 hours I guess, he inserted his penis for an inch for not more than a minute. He was dry. No precum. No feeling of excitement or precum or whatsoever.

I have most of the times been irregular since I started having my first period. And now I'm just really really scared. I couldn't get a pregnancy test since my mom and my dad would know. It's just complicated.

So, what are the chances I could get pregnant?
Extra info, I have a retroverted uterus.

Odds are very low, and now that you have had this scare I hope you reconsider having sex in the first place until you are older and in a better position to handle possible consequences.

If you think your parents would freak out over a pregnancy test, how do you think they would feel with an unplanned pregnancy?
Can you see yourselves being parents?

Now you and your boyfriend should both live up to the trust your parents have shown you. You would have to work very hard to earn that back... and you likely would never get it back completely in regard to this type of situation.

The easiest way is to just not let yourselves get into a situation where things can go too far. IF you find yourself in that situation again, at the very least be smart about it and make sure you are protected.

If you want to think of yourselves as being mature, than you have to act like it, and sometimes that means making tough decisions. Yes, it's going backwards, but you have to set the boundries and stick to them. Don't let your emotions cloud your judgement.

If you don't put yourselves in that situation again you won't have to worry about it.

See what happens when your next period is due. Test if need be... you can buy a test on your own. Follow the directions exactly.

More than likely this will prove to be just a scare, but hopefully also a very valuable lesson.

Take care of yourselves, now and for your future, and make smart choices. I wish you well...

I really learned a lot of lessons. And I swear I would never, never do it again with anybody. My parents and my family are my most prized possession. I couldn't afford hurting them.

Thank you for your answer. I hope I could get my period soon.

I have to add one more point here. I don't want to scare you further because you seem to understand how badly you messed up. But there is a legal aspect to this. Since your boyfriend is under the age of consent, and you are the older partner, you could be prosecuted for statutory rape if you engage in ANY level of sexual activity.