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Walla12
Nov 2, 2010, 05:44 AM
Hi Everyone,

I meet this guy about 2 weeks ago out, he was in my city for the weekend we got on from the moment we meet, he was really nice and we chatting away for long time and had fun together, he said I was hot and the best looking in the night club, and that it was a pleasure meeting me and I got kind of nervous when he said "i was hot" as I wouldn't here it too often and told him I don't think of myself like that..

He ended up back at my place we were chatting and kissing and he stayed over but nothing happened which he was fine with, he said he wanted to meet me again, again and again, and that I was very sexy and he told a friend of mine that we never thought he would meet a girl like me in a night club and that I was nice.

Next morning he had to got back to his hotel to get his stuff, he gave me his mobile to ring for a taxi and to give my address to them, we were know longer down the stairs and the taxi came and he said "take care" I was disappointed as we didn't swap numbers, he told me that without drink he would be shy enough, I don't know if I should contact the hotel to pass on my number to him as they would have his as a contact number when booking in... I don't want to seem desperate, he was 26 and he asked me mine but I "told him you dont ask a lady her age" but I'm in my mid thirties even do I don't look it, I haven't meet anyone as nice as him, he lives 1.5 hrs away.

I don't know if he didn't want my number or he was waiting for me to give mine, I cannot stop thinking about him, I don't know what to do, I need help, or is he too young and I should forget about him? :(

I wish
Nov 2, 2010, 08:09 AM
This happened 2 weeks ago, I'm guessing that he's not longer staying at that hotel, so how are you suppose to get in contact with each other anyway?

You said that you don't know what to do, but what can you do?

If you wanted something more to happen, you definitely should have exchanged numbers that day. It's looking like a one night stand.

Homegirl 50
Nov 2, 2010, 08:12 AM
If he had wanted you number he more than likely would have asked for it.

You had a nice time, now it's time to wake up.

Walla12
Nov 2, 2010, 08:15 AM
The hotel would pass on my details to him if I wanted them to, by making up an excuse that I needed to contact him. I know we should have exchanged numbers, but we were kind of rushing as the taxi was outside...

I wish
Nov 2, 2010, 08:17 AM
The hotel would pass on my details to him if i wanted them to, by making up an excuse that i needed to contact him. I know we should have exchanged numbers, but we were kind of rushing as the taxi was outside....

You had the whole night and morning to exchange numbers. If he seriously wanted your number, he would have found a way. He would have even made the taxi wait 10 extra seconds to get your number.

Sounds like you had a pleasant evening, but nothing more was going to come out of it.

However, if you are THAT into him, then you're going to have to make the move, because he obviously isn't as into you as you are into him.

Homegirl 50
Nov 2, 2010, 08:18 AM
Then pass on your number and see where it goes, but don't be surprised if you don't get a reply.
I still think if he wanted you number, he would have asked for it.