VRon1
Oct 31, 2010, 07:36 PM
First, let me explain a few things before my question...
My mother and I, like most girls with their mother, did not get along between the ages of 11-17 but now that I have grown up, matured, and gotten over my drama (or at least know how to handle my drama with a clear head) I have adult questions and issues I would like to talk with her about. But, we have never had that type of relationship; I don't remember having a conversation with her that did not end with at least one of us getting upset.
I've just been dropping my issues at random times when I know she is in a state of mind to handle it, When I have done that I documented everything from how her posture changed, how long it took her to respond, the tone in her response, her active-ness, her eye contact, everything! And I still do not know how to approach this accurately, or at least with positive results. Positive results being her taking an active interest.
How do I get a conversation with my mother about the issues in my life?
My mother and I, like most girls with their mother, did not get along between the ages of 11-17 but now that I have grown up, matured, and gotten over my drama (or at least know how to handle my drama with a clear head) I have adult questions and issues I would like to talk with her about. But, we have never had that type of relationship; I don't remember having a conversation with her that did not end with at least one of us getting upset.
I've just been dropping my issues at random times when I know she is in a state of mind to handle it, When I have done that I documented everything from how her posture changed, how long it took her to respond, the tone in her response, her active-ness, her eye contact, everything! And I still do not know how to approach this accurately, or at least with positive results. Positive results being her taking an active interest.
How do I get a conversation with my mother about the issues in my life?