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desil95
Oct 30, 2010, 02:22 AM
Ok so this is a really messed up situation. I was dating a old friend from high school I haven't seen her in a year. She just got out of a bad break up with her x boyfriend , So after a month of being with her I notice she starts to lie so I confronted her about what was going on. I knew she was low on money but I had non to give her she had moved back in with her X she told me, but along with her roommates .

Then she told me he came back trying to get back with her. He didn't know about me. So we stopped going out but she keep coming over to see me and we did continue to have sex. She then told me that she was back with him but by this point I didn't care and she cheated on him with me over and over. Id hear him calling her demanding to know where she was she wouldn't tell him. Obviously she was in my bed. She said she didn't care about him, she would go home and he would hear her talking in her sleep. Saying the We should be together. I guess I didn't know if she was for real or not. I mean hey if he wants to pay all your Bills well... everyones gatta survive right?

Eventually it got to the point where he was watching her like a hawk , so she told me she couldn't see me anymore, but I would call while he was at work and she still come. She cried about what was going on , I told her why is she still going on with it. She said she doesn't know. Eventually word got to him and she thought it was me that toldem. She called me a phyco and multi personality person? I was like wait aren't u the one with two lives.

Even after shyt hit the fan is still think about her. We had everything in common, both like cars , ufc , etc.. I understood her and he didn't , I guess money was the issue.

shes_cool
Oct 30, 2010, 03:00 AM
Do you enjoy all the drama? She is soooo not worth it! Go and find someone who will completely devote themselves to you, lifes to short dude :) either that, or get beaten up by the other guy!

shes_cool
Oct 30, 2010, 03:01 AM
And if you still want her back, then something is wrong with you

desil95
Oct 30, 2010, 03:19 AM
Thanks for the good answers makes me feel better. I had to tell someone the whole truth.Im embarrassed to tell people close to me cause I used to be the guy who didn't get stuck on one girl.

desil95
Oct 30, 2010, 03:24 AM
Like I guess its not that I want her so much as I had things I still wanted to say. Like he was older and had nothing going on for him and controlled her. She was always about not be controlled, so for some money she pretty much sold herself

shes_cool
Oct 30, 2010, 03:25 AM
Some gorgeous girl will come and she'll melt your heart. Wish you the best of luck! Let me know how it goes :)

shes_cool
Oct 30, 2010, 03:27 AM
Honestly, don't get wrapped up in her dramas. What she does with her life has nothing to do with you. Even if you feel obliged to help, I would suggest stay away she's like poison. Sorry to be blunt, but life really is too short!

desil95
Oct 30, 2010, 03:34 AM
I do stay away, haven't seen her in a month. I guess she had me hypnotized for a moment, but I must move. I know I look good and I am talking to a beautiful girl but this time I'm going to take it slow.

greeneyedgirl74
Oct 30, 2010, 04:38 AM
You should consider yourself lucky! She is gone! I wish you luck in finding a ONE MAN WOMAN!