I've been talking to this girl for almost 8 months but were not dating.. everything has been awesome up until sweetest day.. she claims she pissed because I did ask to see her when she didn't respond to my text.. also she isn't happy that a x is post stuff on my Facebook status.. since then I've seen her twice and every other time I get blown off and she really isn't texting that much.. I've made an effort to show I do care by sending flowers and trying to hang out.. should I keep trying or just give up.. I don't want to look like a creeper either..

I'm sorry, could you try to explain again why she is upset?

She's mad because I didn't hang out on sweetest day nor wish her happy sweetest day.. should I give up because she's possibly lossin insert or fight for her?

So you're talking to her, but not dating?

Is she someone that you want to date?

Exactly.. for about 8 months now.. yea I want to date her but we go from texting 110 times a day to 10-15.. I kind of almost need a woman's pov.. I need to know if she's mad about the last two weeks or lossin interest.. she's told me before that she want me to show her I care,which ill do if you think I should.. or give up and not look like a creeper

Exactly..for about 8 months now..yea I wanna date her but we go from texting 110 times a day to 10-15..I kinda almost need a woman's pov..I need to know if she's mad about the last two weeks or lossin interest..she's told me before that she want me to show her I care,which ill do if ya think I should..or give up and not look like a creeper


I think that it's understandable that wants you to show that you care.. Especially if you want to date her. That's always a good thing.

She has clearly stated that she wants you to show her that you care, so show her that you care.

I wouldn't give up. You haven't even tried.

I mean are you sure its not lossin interest?because it sure seems like it to me.. if you wouldn't mind given me some advice to try getting her back without being a creeper?I've never had to Chase a woman before.. not to brag or anything..

I am not understanding how you talk to a girl for eight months, and not ask her for a date. Is all your doing is texting, and nothing else why would you not acknowledge her on this sweetest day?

Lol no.. we been seeing e.o for 8 months but I guess I never asked her to be my girlfriend.. when someone goes from texting you all day to now very little texting it can throw me off as if she's not interested anymore.. so I am trying to see what I should do.. Idk why I didn't acknowledge her on sweetest day but I didn't think she would be this upset

Dude, if you haven't made a move for 8 months, any girl would be pizzed at you. You have probably missed a million chances to pop the question, and show how you feel. I don't know if its to late or not, but you better confess your stupidity, and ask for her forgiveness ASAP!! Even if its to late, she may appreciate you getting it finally. Take a risk, and see.

Well I know what I got to do.. thank