Okay well I'm 16years old and me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time on October 24. It was both of our first times having sex. We used protection. He said he pulled out before he came but he isn't sure and said he still wants me to take a pregnancy test. I don't get my period again until the 10th of November next month. Is there ways to see if I'm pregnant this early? Its barely been 2 days but I won't be able to see if I miss my period till next month and want to know now. Is it possible to be pregnant if the condom didn't rip and he said he pulled out before? Isn't there pre-ejaculation or something? I don't regret doing it but please help me please.. im scared :(

There's always a chance of pregnancy when you have sex, even with a condom, and even if he pulls out. There are people on this site that have gotten pregnant using three different forms of birth control, it happens.

There's really no way for you to find out this early if you're pregnant. You'll have to wait until your period is due. If you miss it than take a home pregnancy test using first morning urine.

Here comes the lecture. If you're not ready to be a mother, you're not ready to have sex. Are you willing to go through this every month, hoping that you didn't get pregnant this time?

Did he or did he NOT use a condom. Withdrawl is NOT a form of birth Control.

okay well i'm 16years old and me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time on october 24. it was both of our first times having sex. we used protection. he said he pulled out before he came but he isnt sure and said he still wants me to take a pregnancy test. i dont get my period again until the 10th of november next month. is there ways to see if im pregnant this early? its barely been 2 days but i wont be able to see if i miss my period till next month and want to know now. is it possible to be pregnant if the condom didnt rip and he said he pulled out before? isnt there pre-ejaculation or something? i dont regret doing it but please help me please..im scared :(



There is always a possibility that you can get pregnant.

Condoms are not 100%.

It is to early to tell if you are pregnant. Wait 5 days before you are supposed to have your period, then take a hpt.

You guys are to young to be having sex. You should wait until you are ready to take on a baby financially...

There, I just had to say it.

Did he or did he NOT use a condom. Withdrawl is NOT a form of birth Control.

It really isn't. Even with a condom and withdrawal pregnancy is possible.

There's always a chance of pregnancy when you have sex, even with a condom, and even if he pulls out. There are people on this site that have gotten pregnant using three different forms of birth control, it happens.

There's really no way for you to find out this early if you're pregnant. You'll have to wait until your period is due. If you miss it than take a home pregnancy test using first morning urine.

Here comes the lecture. If you're not ready to be a mother, you're not ready to have sex. Are you willing to go through this every month, hoping that you didn't get pregnant this time?



Alty, you are too cute. ;)

Great minds think alike. You and I must have been typing out our answers at the sam exact time, because we said pretty much the same thing.

Oh and to the OP, I DID get pregnant using protection. However, I am a older than you and I can financially take care of this child, where as you at 16, I highly doubt.

Play smart.

I know I'm not ready to be a mom.. but it happened so fast & believe me my mom would be very upset and mad if she found out because she raised me well. But I did it and there's no taking it back. He has a condom on said it didn't rip, and he pulled out.

Yes please clarify as to what type off protection,

But he is just very paranoid. So that's why I was asking. And I've been getting cramps, is that normal?

He said he did, that it didn't rip.. I think he is just very paranoid because it was his first time? But I don't know why he would be worried if he said he didn't come in me?

Cramps happen. It could be because you just had sex, it could be because you're PMSing, it could be because you had burritos for lunch. ;)

The bottom line is this, we can't tell you if you're pregnant, and it's way too early to test. It is a possibility every time you have sex, protection or no protection. Now you get to play the waiting game. That's really your only option.

I wish you all the best and I hope you keep us posted.

He used a trojan condom.

He as well as you are worried because you both know you're not ready to be parents and play house.

Take this as a sign and stop having sex.

Focus on your studies and school.

There will be plenty of time in the future for that...

Ha burritos for lunch :)
Okay, well thank you this was very helpful because I haven't told ANYONE yet.
Oh and one more thing, is it normal to feel very very tired and sleep long periods after sex?

That's what I thought.. it really scared him.. but he was the one that kept saying he wanted to have sex for months n months.. maybe now he learned his lesson.. thnx

First, please don't use the comments feature to post follow-up. Use the Answer options instead.

Second, you both sound extremely scared of your getting pregnant. Yet that fear didn't stop you. And, he obviously planned this since he had a condom ready.

No you can't take it back, but you can learn from the fear you now feel to not repeat it.

Okay well I didn't know how to answer back so I out a comment? I just joined sooo SORRY.
&well we were at his house. So he had some its not like he knew he was going to get sex from me so yeah.
&well yeah but he's scaring the hell out of me.. like wouldn't I be able to feel if he came inside me?

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He was probibly worried because he was actually listening in Health Class. And you HAVE to know you CAN actually get pregnant while using Condoms, Spremacide cream AND the Pill. Think I'm kidding you? A site Supermoderator Synnen she got pregnant using all three at once... and has said so on the site multiple times. And there are several others here that had children while using multiple forms of birth control.

I'm serious... the ONLY 100% effective way is don't do it.


Then there are STD's. People lie about what they have done... if they have done it and with whom far more often than you will believe.

Herpes is the gift that keeps giving... there is no cure as just ONE example... and its epidemic in the young. Then there is HPV that can cause cervicle cancer.

wouldnt i be able to feel if he came inside me?
You said he was wearing a condom. In that case you wouldn't feel a flood of semen, although you would feel his orgasm.

"Pulling out" (with or without a condom) is not birth control.

okay well i didnt know how to answer back so i out a comment?? i just joined sooo SORRY.
&well we were at his house. so he had some its not like he knew he was gonna get sex from me so yeah.
&well yeah but hes scaring the hell outta me..like wouldnt i be able to feel if he came inside me?

No sweetie, not with a condom on...

There are other indications that would tell you if he did.

Learn from all of this.

Okay I get that pulling out isn't birth control. I get that. I KNOW that. But I was just saying it to show he did have protection and pulled all the way out before.
But thank you smoothy and Enigma you guys helped me a ton
I'm less worried but will stilll take a pregnant. Test. I have to go will keep updated.. thank you!

Just so you know, you may not get everything you need to know in Health class. And if you ended up prenant... you can all but guarantee that he's NOT going to be there... and even if he is.. it won't likely be for long. Statistically it happens MOST of the time... she get prenants... he splits. Seriously, young guys lie all the time to get in your pants... I was a young guy once... in fact was your age once... 34 years ago. I've seen it far too often and would hate to see your life and future ruined over some dumb guy that only had one thing on his mind. We do mature eventually... usually in our 30's. Before then you have to assume we are after one thing. And some can be VERY convincing.

You have to be mature AND take charge of your OWN well being... you can't rely on a boy to do it.

"He used a Trojan condom"

If you aren't pregnant you should sell your story to the company! Great advertising!

My girlfriend thought she was pregnant one time and I had a panic attack. And we are in our 20's, not teens, so I know how your boyfriend feels. On the other hand, we have been having sex on a regular basis for 2 years and I have used a condom maybe twice. She's on the pill and I pull out, most of the time ;)), so it's different for everybody. Some girls can get pregnant just looking at a guys member.

okay well i didnt know how to answer back so i out a comment?? i just joined sooo SORRY.


I wasn't criticizing you. I was just educating you. I know you are new so didn't know any better.

I had a friend with one ovary, has PCOD, was on the pill and used a condom and still got pregnant, even though the doctor told her children were most likely not a possibility.

It happens every day. No protection equals safe sex.

It's a scary world and 5 seconds of pleasure isn't worth ruining your life.

You sound like a smart girl, someone willing to listen, so I hope that you listen to us. We may be older now, but that's why we can give you this advice, we've been there, done that and learned from it. There's no reason why you have to make the same mistakes we did and learn the hard way. :)