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jury.baoer
Oct 25, 2010, 01:22 PM
I used to be popular in school but now I'm not. I don't have that much friends no more, my friends start going away, and now I'm almost alone. No one talk to me now, I don't know why.

Enigma1999
Oct 25, 2010, 02:19 PM
I used to be popular in school but now i'm not. I don't have that much friends no more, my friends start going away, and now i'm almost alone. No one talk to me now, i don't know why.

You really don't know why you lost pretty much all of your friends?

Haveyou ever asked any of them why they don't talk to you any longer?

ITstudent2006
Oct 25, 2010, 02:23 PM
What's changed from then until now?

If there's one thing I know about this topic, it's that students don't go from "popular" to non for no reason. Something must have happened, either on your end or on every single one of your freind's end (that's unlikely).

The only thing I can say is to ask them why they aren't your friends anymore. You could spend forever trying to figure it out on your own or you could make it quick and simply ask.

Rick

mmresd
Oct 26, 2010, 08:56 AM
First, figure out what you did, because true friends don't just stop talking to you because you become non-popular, and you don't become non-popular without doing anything either. Then, you can start working on how to fix what you did, remember that if you do not know what the problem is you cannot begin to solve it. And finally, reconsider your friends, because most "true" friends that are worth your time normally stand by you in situation like this, popular girls/guys something get to hang out with some people, but when they leave when you lose your "status" that normally means that they weren't with you for you, but with you for the benefits of being with you.

Good Luck,

Javi