I travelled during the summer for six weeks and left home with my wife and child. Soon after I left, my wife stopped answering my phone. Moreover, she failed to return my messages. Then I became suspicious and I logged on to my online phone account because we had family plan with two lines. I discovered that my wife was having long telephone conversation with a man in our neighborhood. For a period of 25 days, my wife and her new friend were talking over 8 hours over the phone. Furthermore, upon checking her credit card statements, I saw she was going to hair salon every weekend. Moreover, she went to dentist for three times to clean her teat. She bough a new bed set for $5000 on credit. To add insult to injury, the guy came to the bedroom and assemble the new bed set. In addition, she spent over $2500 buying different items from Bed, Bath and Beyond to decorate our bedroom/bathroom. Moreover, she spent over $2300 for cosmatics. Do you see a picture? When I confronted her, she said she was talking to the man's wife. I didn't belief her and we are now divorced.

Did you ever prove that she was actually talking to the man, and not his wife?

When she said she was talking to the wife, I asked her to go with me to the woman and ask her if my wife was talking to her. My ex refused. Furthermore, the other man's wife has her own cell phone and there is a home phone. I came on Monday from my trip and my ex discovered the printout of cell calls from my laugage on Tuesday. The other man called me on Wednesday and said his wife wants to talk to my ex and asked me if I can give my ex his wife's number. The way I understood, when my ex came to know that I discovered her calls, she asked the man to call me in order to convince me that it was wives talking to each other. Another piece of information: after I divorced her, I came to know that my ex has opened a new bank account with a PO Box address and diposited over $24000 of my business checks while I was away. Why PO Box? Simply because she didn't want me to see bank statements from the secret bank account. Do you see a picture now?

You go dude!!

What does that mean? "You go dude!!!"

How had your marriage been up until the summer?

What does that mean? "You go dude!!!"

Glad you had the good sense to handle your problems so decisively.

So did the other guys wife ever find out about this affair?

I need more info. This is very interesting.:)