diamondfingers
Oct 21, 2010, 10:09 PM
My ex and I were really close and lived together in a relationship for seven years, we more or else ended our relationship because I wanted to change sex, we continued to live together and not see anyone for 3 years until moved into a new place were she started seeing the manager upstairs who is older and has a record of mischeif. I had no problem with her moving on but she now does nothing around the house, can't pay her rent and treats me like a door mat, when I try and take to her plays stupid and nice then runs back upstairs and screws the guy. She has no integrety as a friend and I'm stuck because I want to move and stay away but rent is so high I can't survive with out my current arrangement which I have had for years, I would like to know if anyone can give me advice on how to deal with someone that you can no longer stand and manage to stay until I can find something better, like is there a way to tolerate it and not be a part of it, any advice would be a great help thanks.