I know a guy for 1 year and a half.I didn't like him right away but we spent a lot of time together, he said that he has deep feelings for me but I was still not that into him.After a while, I began to like him, we finally dated but I didn't want to have sex .after 2 months we spleet because he wanted it and I still didn't want to do it.He finally came back and said that he would try to live with that.I was still not sure of what I really wanted... I asked him to be my friend instead but itdidn't work.He called me all the time every day and I even never called him.Last time I called him because I was bored and we talked and as soon as he hang up, he texted me not to call him or not to text him anymore because he thought that it would be better if we talk to each other at least 2 times a month.I really miss him now and I spend my days thinking of him, now that he is probably gone for ever I realise that I am in love.What should I do?? call him when I miss him?text him to say hi?

You didn't want the same things. Unless you can get on the same page moving forward, you're better off leaving each other alone.

He's told you he doesn't want to talk to you, so you need to take his words seriously and move on without him.

He's either completely done with the relationship or is thinking that by rejecting you that you may end up missing him so much that you'll be willing to give in and have sex with him. Either way you're better off without him.

A guy that is only interested in getting in your pants and is so easy to drop you and tell you to stop talking to him until you put out gives all guys a bad name. I am sorry that you have met a person that has so immature and so little common sense about things. One thing is for sure, he wants to sleep with you and that seems to be the only thing he really wants so if you are looking for a serious or even an open relationship this is NOT the guy. Forget about him, move your interest to someone that deserves to have them and do not beat yourself up for losing someone that does appreciate you at all in the first place.

Good Luck,

Javi

Thanks to y'all!! I really appreciate your time and answers.

Last time I went to his place to get something from his sister,I just spent 4 minutes and I was gone.The day after, he called me and told me that he didn't
Want us to become enemies;he just needed a little space from each other.He was asking me why I was not calling him... I answered that he was the one
That asked me to back off and let him go.He was just keeping on saying the same thing(I didn't want us to be enemies).. I said OK.Then the next day he called again and we talked.This week end we went to the movies and that was cool; H e told me that he really tried to get over me,he erased my number from his contacts just to try to forget me but he missed me so much that he couldn't do that anymore.I told him that it was the same way for me too.
I heard that there is a girl(his sister's friend) that came from abroad to see his sister.My sister was at their place and told me that it seems that the guy
Was interested I that new girl.I don't know what to feel because the same night, we spent the hole night talking on the phone... I can not figure out if the guy is lying to me or is telling me the truth about his feelings or not.I do love him but is he honest with me?I don't know.Should I talk to him about all I hear and all I feel about that?I really feel like I should stop focusing on him so much and start thinking of moving on but It is so hard for me to forget himmm.what do you guys think I should do?