Okay so I am a 16 year old girl, I have had crushes on guys before, but nothing like this guy I like now, or that I think I like. So the guy I like is 17 he's super hot and we kind of look alike that's what everyone says, he's SUPER sweet and nice to me. The only problem is, is that he is bi-sexual. I have NEVER been in this situation before. I have always known this about him and it didn't bother me. Like we hung out this one time and it was soooo much fun that's when I really started liking him. He told me that he liked me and I told him that I like him. He would send me good morning texts and it made me feel SOO good! He doesn't do that anymore because I told him we were taking things to fast because were not even dating! About a week ago him and I kissed and I guess I felt something, you know how people say you know if you like someone by your first kiss, well I did feel something but it was like AMAZING. But when we hold hands and he tickes my back and stuff I get butterflies. I guess part of me is scared of what other people will think if we were to date and I know that I shouldn't. All of my close friends think that we should date and everyone says how cute we are. But my close friends are the only ones that know he is bi-sexual. So there is this one guy in my class who knows this guy I'm talking to and he always makes really rude remarks about how he's gay. And I tell this kid he's not gay he's bi sexual like it makes me so mad when people make those ride remarks, it just makes me like this kid I'm talking to less and less and I know that is shouldn't! Also my other friend said that most bi-sexual people actually turn out to be gay, is that the truth? Because I really feel like this guy likes me. One more thing people say that he acts gay sometimes but I just think its his personality to be outgoing and kind of crazy but I like it I don't want him to be boring. So I know this is super long and confusing but I just REALLY need some advice.

Has he asked you to date him? Don't get yourself worked up over something that may not happen.
Be friends with him. Get to know him, then you can base your feeling on what you know rather than what you feel or what someone tells you.

Bi sexuals can be gay, and they can be straight, and to you that only means he likes you. But he could also like his male friends too, but for now he likes you. No way do you invest your heart into someone you may feel attracted too, but he may not feel the same, gay, or straight, and if he is in the closet, then you run the risk of being his excuse to keep the image of being a straight guy alive. That's his problem though, not yours, and you can only find out by talking honestly to him, and deal with facts, and not just your own strong feelings of attractions.

I think the solution to your problem though is being cautious with your heart, until you know a lot more of him than you do now and trust your instincts. Get facts, and rely less on opinions of others, who may not know the truth of the matter either, but have strong opinions.

Thanks, the thing is, is that I do know him really well, like we are SUPER close and I can tell him anything, and I always tell him how I feel, but thank you, you really did help me :)

He has not asked me out yet, but I have a feeling he will, all my friends think so too, they ask me everyday "so are you two dating yet" :) haha I think that if he does ask me out I will say yes because you only live once :)

I hope you are a very good listener as well. :):D