About 3 months ago I met this guy. He texted me consently throughout summer holidays, then we decided to meet up. Problem was he had a rep of being a player my sister warned me of him and so did my friends. I decided to just go for it and meet him. The 3rd time I met him he asked me were do things go on from here.. I wernt sure what to say because I was having problems with my sister and friends , so I just said lets just see how it goes .

A week later he asked me out . We were joking about friends with benefits and he said ' or boyfriend '? I just went haha and I want a chat first about his reputation he had. We never did have the chat so I just talked it over with him over text and I hinted and hinted for him to ask me out again.

Then a couple days later he said he didn't want to get into a relationship straight away because they always mess up. We kept meeting up but he stopped trying . It was me doing all the asking, always me txting first. So I thought he wernt interested no more.. I was honestly confuzed.

Then I went to a party and I got very drunk.. I am so asamed about this :( I was talking to his mates and wanted them to dance he was there but I was annoyed with him because when I said hi to him he didn't seem bothered . I got in a huff and started dancing with another lad and got of with him.

I got a fuming text saying 'dancing with other lads eyyy' then he found out about the other guy . I no I was wrong but I didn't realise his reaction was so bad. He won't talk to me , text me or nothing :(... I really want him back I can't stop thinking what I did and how I have lost him.

I have said sorry to him so many times but he just said I won't be able to trust you and were better of friends.

He said he still liked me.

Please help and give me some feed back. I really don't want to get over him.

Thanks :)

He is playing games, my dear, playing with your head. I see this all over your post about him. Get over him.

Tick

What was he upset about? You two are not even dating and is he not the one who stopped texting you?
He is playing games with you, hoping to get you to feel so bad and guilty you'll sleep with him.
The guy is a player. Leave him alone.

Forget him, but please do something about your own bad impulsive drunken behavior. Come on he wasn't all that interested anyway, and if he is so willing to use any excuse as leverage then you better pay attention to what he is doing now.


then a couple days later he said he didn't want to get into a relationship straight away because they alway mess up. we kept meeting up but he stoped trying . it was me doing all the asking, always me txting first. so I thought he wernt interested no more.. I was honestly confuzed.

This was before the drunk dancing stuff, and while it didn't help, thing were already going down hill. So stop the guilt tripping and deal with what's important, YOU, not HIM. You never had him to begin with, and have lost NOTHING!!