QLD01
Oct 12, 2010, 08:10 PM
My girlfriend of 8 months told me about 5 days ago that she wanted to take a week to figure out if she still loved me, she said that she still cares deeply for me but she just needs the time to figure this out. This was a massive shock because I didn't think anything was wrong, of course we have argued before but it always worked out after talking about it. We haven't been dating for a long time but the relationship moved fast and after 6 months we were basically living together, I do think we moved to fast and I'm happy for her to go and live where she used to if that would help. Of course I texted her the next day saying how sorry I was for the mistakes I had made and I asked her to talk to me to try and fix this, I didn't get a reply. So after not hearing from her for another 2 days I tried to ring her, she picked up but she said that she didn't want to talk yet becausee she still was confused, I asked her if she still cared about me and she said yes she does but she still didn't know if she loved me or not. I asked if we could meet up and talk this out but she said no she wasn't ready, so I asked if I should move on... She hesitated and said yes, but I really don't want to move on yet I want to break up face to face so that I can tell her how I want to change, not just for her but also for myself. I made my mistakes by not listening to her during our previous arguments and I am paying for them now. I told her that I wouldn't try to make contact with her until after she has had her week but I don't know if she will contact me to try and talk. I just don't know what to do