Hello I'm japanese sorry if I'm bad english.
Someone in my mind for 5yrs.we liked each other but he gones to oversea.. I don't know he is back here again.and passed time. 5yrs.. I met many guys this 5yrs ,some guys said me Be my girlfriend.but no one in my mind.. and 1yrs ago someone veryyy did love attack to me.he knows I have someone in my mind 5yrs.but he said me its OK,I want you to like me oneday!! so be my girlfriend.and I have relationship with him for a yr.I feel I like him when I'm with him,but always someone who I can't forget is in my mind.. not my boyfriend in my mind.. is this rude? should be break up with my boyfriend?

Don't get attached to someone from 5 years ago. You will be disappointed that they are not how you remember them.

Hi, Wonka7!

Have you had any contact over the past five years with the person who went overseas, please?

Thanks!

Have you kept in touch with the ex?

If you haven't kept in touch, don't wish and hope your life away. The ex may already be taken. In 5 years, he could be married with kids.

You've got to focus on today - not 5 years ago.

Its usually best to leave the past in the past and move on. No its not rude to still wonder about the past, but it may not be wise to let it stop you from being happy in thee present, but never feel guilty for having thoughts about past partners, just don't act on them and cross the lines of good behavior.

It sounds like you need to let go of the guy! Its been 5 years its time to let go of him. Especially now that he is overseas and you don't know when he'll be back... well.. what's the point of holding on? It seems a bit wasful to me.

What was the relationship between you and why can't you let go?

I have boyfriend now.
I love him but just a little bit.
Should I breakup?

Wow... this is the most vague question I've seen on here so far. If you're not happy break up with him. It's that simple. If you love him stay with him.

This is not a game. Don't play on with his feelings. So unfair!

If you think that he is not perfect for you then leave him...

If you are having fun and enjoying him, then continue to do so. If you are not, then why live a lie?