View Full Version : Waited few days before first date to tell me she had boyfriend, tips?
crackistanii
Oct 10, 2010, 03:14 PM
She's definitely into me. After she told me had boyfriend I said " wow i feel bad.. shouldnt tell him about me till u break up with him" no response, next day I say "cant be just friends with u ..ill give u a week to make up ur mind" she said "ur a dork" only calls me dork when weere flirting
crackistanii
Oct 10, 2010, 03:21 PM
Fyi didn't go on date after that. Plan on ignoring her till she's single
Fr_Chuck
Oct 10, 2010, 03:29 PM
I think time to move on. Calling you a dork is not a loving nick name.
Cat1864
Oct 10, 2010, 03:38 PM
I'd lose her number.
I wouldn't plan on her ever being single if this is how she normally goes from one relationship to the next. No sense waiting around to be the next person she attempts to cheat on. I am sure there are other females in your area who are available and are not looking to play relationship games.
crackistanii
Oct 10, 2010, 03:51 PM
She hasn't cheated, we didn't fool around before we were supposed to go out, and we didn't even go out after she told me she had boyfriend. Trying to be positive waiting till Thursday for anything. I'm ready to move on but I'm pretty picky when it comes to girls I want to date and I've had my eye on her for a while. As far as the dork comment goes its hard to tell because she only uses it when were flirting, but who knows she's a hard read
Cat1864
Oct 10, 2010, 04:10 PM
If she did break up with him to date you, how long do you think it would be before the next person catches her eye and she tries to go out a date with him? He may not have your standards and could say okay without you being any wiser. Is that a chance you want to take?
crackistanii
Oct 10, 2010, 04:24 PM
I was worried about that but remembered that's how my parents got together. My mom was seeing someone else while seeing my dad in the begininng, he gave her an ultimatum, she chose him, happily married last 25 years. So that's keeping my hopes up
crackistanii
Oct 13, 2010, 06:38 PM
Saw her in computer lab with guy who I presume is her boyfriend
Because I've seen them together before. Walked right past her didn't even look
At her, met with friend who was sitting right behind them for about 20 min
Didn't look her way once even when I left, good or bad?
Homegirl 50
Oct 13, 2010, 06:58 PM
I think you need to leave this girl alone.
She is obviously with this guy. Are you just gong to sit on a stool and wait?
Girls who flirt with guys while dating another are apt to do that with the next guy as well.
Maybe she is just flirting with you, not in to you at all.
I wish
Oct 13, 2010, 07:09 PM
There's no good or bad, but I do see some unhealthy behavior. Rid her from your mind. Don't let her presence dictate what you're going to do that day.