I have some conflicts with my mother - in- law,I got married 4 months back,but my husband never supported me even if I was right.as a results abusing each other started.now 2 months has passed my inlaws neither my husband contacts me.I called him 1000 times but he don't pick the phone I can't meet him because he works in delhi and is a lawyer.he only said that he want elders to be involved to look into the matter.I m in a state of anxiety and each day passes like a hell to me.I tried very hard by approaching many peoples related to him so that some initiation of dialogues get started.I am at my parents place since 2 months.but nothing resulted.now I'm tired with this separation it never leads to anything.there is much more mess created now.I don't know how to resolve this problem.how can I make him to realize that I love him a lot and don't want to loose him,which he never understood and that hurts me a lot.

Sounds like the ship has sailed on this one. You lost him.. He is being a creep, I know, but the sooner you're free of him, the sooner you can start rebuilding your life. How the two of you ever got married is a mystery to me, but either he changed completely in the last couple of months or you were living in a fantasy land.

Was this an arrange marriage? What do your own elders advise you do?

Your husband needs to be a man and handle his own business. Sounds like everyone is "working on your problems" except for the two of you.

Side note : This sounds like an issue that you should not listen to me on. Elders have nothing to do with marriages where I come from.