OK where should I start.. lately I've been having problems staying hard after I get an erection, it's never happened to me before so it's really frustrating and embarrassing now that its happening. Its happened like 3 times right before I have sex and I'm pretty sure my partner is starting to wonder what's going on, I would also like to know why this is happening . I try relaxing and not being nervous but nothing seems to work.. I'm only 19 I shouldn't be having this problem yet right? Could it be because I'm smoking too much marijuana? Because I've been smoking lately but I don't know if that's the cause because I've been smoking for awhile and this problem is just starting to happen. I love my partner and I want to please her and make her happy but if I keep having this problem it's never going to happen. So please if you can give me any advice you may have on this I want to fix this problem as soon as possible, thanks.

Ferny I am so relieved to read your post! I too am also 19 and even though I hear that it is normal even at this young age to experience this, it is nice to actually hear someone having the same problems. I have a girlfriend also and have experienced this many times, I have more to say but I am waiting for your reply to this because I have never been on this site before and I don't know if you will even get this.