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anzalpe
Sep 29, 2010, 10:29 PM
I dated a guy for a month.a year ago. I know it is a little but I love him I still do. And my best friend of course she knows I am still in love with him but now she's dating him. She hasn't talk to me about it, and I haven't talk to her because it is uncomfortable and awkward. But I told a friend of us to talk to her and tell her that I was upset. She didn't mind. So my question is: Can it brake us apart as best friends? Do I should be mad?

anzalpe
Sep 29, 2010, 10:33 PM
I dated a guy for a long time. We brake up because of my family because he is too old for me, but he really loves me and he has proved it. And I love him too. And he wants to be together again but my family won't let me, What should I do?

aimee_tt
Sep 29, 2010, 10:37 PM
What are you ages?
Who did you meet him?
Is it just the age that your parents don't like or is there something else?

anzalpe
Sep 29, 2010, 11:39 PM
I met this boy like 4 years ago, I always think he's handsome but we never have been that close but this year he has been my huge crush I don't know why, so I started talking to him and I told on friend in common that I liked him, my friend told him. And we still talk but I always have to start the conversation but he keeps talking. I really really like him a lot so I need help to get to know him better and maybe have a chance with him!

joypulv
Sep 30, 2010, 03:30 AM
When a 15 year old says a guy 'proved his love' I consider that a sign that you are too young. You prove love by the test of time, MANY YEARS, and going through hardship together. Your parents get to tell you what you can do under their roof as long as they are responsible for you, which they are, legally and morally, until you are on your own. If you love each other so much that you will give up the comforts of home, then run away. Chances are very high that you won't like it one bit and the romance will soon be gone. Romance leaves soon enough anyway, and the reality of getting through life hits you. When one person is in high school and the other one has left, the differences get bigger and bigger too. He becomes someone hanging around with 'kids' instead of thinking about his future and a career. If you love each other so much after all that, WAIT.

RickJ
Sep 30, 2010, 04:16 AM
The 3 threads have been merged.

joypulv
Sep 30, 2010, 05:20 AM
3 different stories that don't sound likely when merged. I'm learning.

RickJ
Sep 30, 2010, 05:26 AM
3 different stories that don't sound likely when merged. I'm learning.
We all see that. Anzalpe, please clarify. We're here to help, but you need to be specific about the situation - and clarify exactly what you'd like help with.

RadioActive697
Sep 30, 2010, 01:22 PM
I'm about 13 just 9 days away and I think it's fine just as long as you know what you are getting yourself into. But you still have to follow your parents orders. If your parents say you cannot date then don't and don't try to date him behind their backs either cause that is wrong also to! Goodluck!

anzalpe
Sep 30, 2010, 06:31 PM
Sorry about the others questions! I don't know why are here! I posted them like other questions but something gone wrong hahaha sorry!